1, learn to buy water

Bring two cups of milk tea when you meet for the first time, so that you can quickly establish a good image in others' hearts and quickly narrow the distance with each other. Decorate the wardrobe, buy them a bottle of red bull, and they will install it for you more attentively. Why not?

2. Learn to praise and recognize the benefits of others. No one doesn't like being praised. In interpersonal communication, praise others generously and recognize each other's excellent recognition. Others will give you many unexpected surprises.

Always be careful not to be defensive, and learn to protect yourself in everything. Be careful where you meet the signature and seal, and be sure to read the documents clearly.

Things are not necessarily beautiful, but they must be said beautifully, just like eating in a restaurant. If the boss says to the chef, "Give this little brother more meat", will you be happy to come back to eat next time? But in fact, the chef didn't really add more meat to you, and the boss didn't ask him to add more meat, but you still have a good impression on this store.

5. When others praise you.

You should learn to transfer this compliment to the other person, so that you can be recognized without causing others' jealousy.

For example:

Bo Huang once appeared on Lu Yu's program Lu Yu said, "You are very popular now!" Bo Huang directly replied, "Can everyone sit here and chat with Lu Yu? Everyone suddenly became happy. "

6. When someone invites you to dinner, don't bring a small gift empty-handed. First, show respect. Second, better communication. After all, many people don't blame bringing a bottle of wine or a box of cigarettes. Throw whatever you like.

7. A person who doesn't show the scenery is very shrewd, and everything looks like a cloud. It's hard for you to know what she is thinking. Others are unpredictable, so naturally they dare not do anything to you.

8. Smart people will master the rhythm when chatting. When the topic is not speculative, they will take the initiative to hand over a cigarette, fill each other with a glass of wine or tea, and introduce the dishes. Slow-witted people don't understand that they will only try to speak plausibly for fear of missing the opportunity of communication.

9. A person with a heavy heart is invincible.

A person with a peaceful mind will not be defeated. A mindless person will completely collapse if he refuses once and laughs at once.

10, you should know: What are servility and politeness? What is flattery and praise? You should understand that vitriol and humor are two different things, outspoken and outspoken, uneducated and casual. What's more, this is two different things: seeing through, not telling the truth, not judging people, not arguing, not trying to change anyone.

Don't expect people around you to change because of you. They will automatically change the adult world just because of your pocket. It is a rule to put villains before gentlemen and interests before villains.

12, the essence of interpersonal communication is value exchange. In order to provide value to others, others will naturally give it back to you willingly.

I hope to know that I can help you find your own satisfactory appearance.