College students' thoughts after reading 1 A good book, an article, a training, a study and a visit, I think, will arouse your admiration.
The Ordinary World is a book which takes China as the research object and studies the urban-rural changes of people. It is another book about finding yourself ordinary after the global bestseller "First of all, breaking all conventions". It aims to find out the most common ordinary human beings and tell the world to apply this commonness to individuals and careers, so as to achieve successful results.
Nowadays, people are becoming more and more free. Although it can't be said that they can do whatever they want, at least the "God" of existential planned economy doesn't interfere from employment to job selection or even going abroad. For many people, the opportunity has finally come. From opportunities that I never dreamed of in the past to successes that I never dreamed of in the past. The whole society of our country has changed.
However, anxiety still exists, and the pain of being at the mercy of others is disappearing, replaced by the confusion of choice and the anxiety of freedom. Remember The Shepherd? The "herdsman" was in pain: the catastrophe ruined his career. However. "Herdsmen" can find "comfort" again, because the catastrophe explains his ending. What is different now is that the catastrophe has passed, "God" has retired, and others have succeeded. However, if you, as a "herdsman", once longed for but failed to achieve a brilliant life, then you have no chance to complain, only yourself to blame. I am afraid this kind of pain is no less than the "herders" of that year. No wonder some people say that people have fallen into the bad luck of freedom again.
What is success? Different people have different opinions. Some scholars once defined that success is to give full play to your potential. Under the given external conditions, the key to success lies in whether you can accurately identify and give full play to your natural ordinary. What is ordinary? This is one thing you can do naturally. As easy as blowing off dust, but better than the other 10 thousand people. Conceptually speaking, it is a continuous and almost perfect performance of doing one thing.
Although ordinary is so important, people have paid little attention to it, let alone cherish and play it. We have been deeply influenced by this concept since childhood. Boast one's bad habit of not being modest. You should be modest. Only by finding and correcting shortcomings can you make progress. Is this contradictory to making the best use of everything? When we only know how to correct our shortcomings blindly, those who pay attention to the ordinary have walked in front of us and tasted the fruits of victory. Of course, the shortcomings are not good at all, as long as they are properly controlled. This is the best and most conducive to our success.
So how do we find ourselves ordinary? First of all, if you want to show your talents, please pay attention to your spontaneous, calm and spontaneous response to all kinds of situations you encounter. These reactions provide clues to what you do best, and they reveal the location of a strong spiritual connection. It is true that Sun Shaoan and Sun Shaoping, who suffer silently for their lives, are some vivid examples showing how people reveal their true colors in times of crisis. But life is full of quiet moments, which can also trigger discriminatory reactions.
Your spontaneous reaction reveals your clearest talent clue, but you should also remember the other three threads:
First of all, you learn quickly. As the name implies, you learn the fastest in that field when you are studying, so that field is probably your ordinary place.
The second is satisfaction, which means that something or a feeling makes you feel satisfied, because the source of this satisfaction may be the same as what you just did.
The third is desire, which reveals the existence of talent, especially the desire you felt when you were young. As long as you observe and analyze everything carefully, you can find your ordinary.
College students' thoughts after reading II. Reading a good book can affect a person for a lifetime. Gone with the Wind really inspired me and benefited me a lot. The whole book, whether it is colorful and fluent language description or vivid characterization, has reached its peak. This is really a treasure of world literature. Among them, the heroine's view of love makes me deeply touched. Scarlett, an outstanding figure born in the turbulent years of the United States, radiates endless light with her outstanding personality. She is brave, strong, optimistic, tenacious struggle with life and never gives in.
She is decisive and clever. The most outstanding point is her persistence in love. Her angelic face and demonic figure-in the words of ancient China beauties, it is to sink fish and fall wild geese, and to shut the moon and feel ashamed of flowers-make many young men fall at her feet. However, she doesn't care about this. She is crazy about love. But out of desperation, she married two people she didn't like. When she saw her beloved Ashley again, she was still madly in love with him like a girl and poured out her love to him desperately. This reminds me of another manifestation of women's loyalty to love in China feudal society. Take Peacock Flying Southeast as an example, a man and a woman must tie the knot to show their loyalty to love, which is closely linked to marriage.
"The monarch is a rock, the concubine is a reed, the reed is as tough as silk, and the rock has not moved." When their love is destroyed by others, in order to show their persistence in love, they have to "hang the southeast branch". However, Scarlett is different. In her view of love, love and marriage can be separated, or the separation of spirit and body. She doesn't care about each other's marriage. She put aside all bold things to love Ashley and strive for her own happiness. She doesn't put the shackles of ethics and morality on her love, and her love will always be free and unrestrained. This may be caused by cultural differences between East and West. The essence of love will not change with the change of expression.
Scarlett has been fascinated by love for most of her life. I did a lot of wrong things because I was confused. It was not until the end that she discovered that Ashley, whom she had always loved deeply, did not love her, nor was she as good as she imagined. In fact, what she loves is not Ashley, but a perfect image in her heart. The more Ashley refuses her, the more perfect the image in her heart-which is exactly what China said: what she can't get is the best-and it is because of her wrong infatuation that she mistakenly views the real happiness around her. This also inspired me: people should learn to distinguish right from wrong and not let happiness slip through their fingers. Thankfully, nothing is too late in Scarlett's love world. After she completely lost Ashley and her daughter, and her husband Rhett left her, she realized that the person she really loved was Rhett, so she put aside her psychological trauma and regret and believed that she would be able to save Rhett's heart.
"Anyway, tomorrow is another day!" If many people can have this optimistic and confident attitude towards love, then many love tragedies will not happen. How many times have I shared happiness, fun, sadness and laughter with Gone with the Wind? How much melancholy, how much joy, how much emotion, how much wonder. Covered up the interests, the rest is a strong shock and a lifetime of moving.
College students' thoughts on reading III. Maxim Gorky's childhood is world-famous. On an ordinary Sunday afternoon, I opened it. Emotion also rises and falls with the black lines in the book. ...
The protagonist Aletha's painful childhood moved me: at the age of four, he lost his father, followed his grief-stricken mother and kind grandmother to his overbearing and bankrupt grandfather's house, but he was often beaten by his violent grandfather. But the kind grandmother protects him everywhere. At his grandfather's house, he met many "quiet" relatives, including two selfish and insatiable uncles Mikhail and Yakov, and two cousins named Sarah. Simple, deeply in love with Aletha's "Little Cuokan" (Ivan) always uses his arm to block grandpa's whip on Aletha, although it will be swollen. But he was very strong, and later he was crushed to death while helping my second uncle Yakov carry the cross. ...
Aletha spent his childhood in a typical Russian citizen's family: greedy, cruel and ignorant; The intrigue between father and son, brother and husband and wife; In order to compete for property, we often quarrel and fight over trifles ... but in this dark family, there is a hardworking, strong and kind grandmother. She often tells Alisha beautiful fairy tales and subtly teaches him to be a person who doesn't want to bend his knees to ugliness.
Alisha's childhood was dark, just like his family. There are so many cruel things around him that sometimes even he himself can't believe that such things will happen. But fortunately, there is grandma-the spiritual pillar of the whole family. Aletha also knows many other people: several tenants after moving into the new house, the third young master next door, and so on. Aletha learned some truth from some "strange" actions of his family.
Compared with alessa, our childhood is brilliant and colorful; No worries and pains, no worries. There are so many children who don't even know what "beating" means, because we have never experienced the taste of being beaten or whipped. That may be unimaginable pain. Of course, in addition, there are few greedy and vicious things in our lives, such as family members fighting for property. There will be no such "terrorist incident" as cruelly torturing an innocent person to death for no reason.
God, by contrast, our childhood is very different from Aletha's. We live in honeypots every day, soak in sweet water and pile up money ... how happy we are! We never have to think about food, clothing, housing and transportation. These are enough for adults to worry about, not for us.
But with these, we are not satisfied. We always expect more. Because, in our eyes, it is so easy for adults to make money, and it seems like a breeze. How naive we are. Indeed, we don't have to go to the "human world" at the age of eleven like Alisha. But after reading Childhood, we should repent of our extravagance, stop wasting and learn to cherish it.
So, let's start now. We are no longer extravagant and wasteful; We began to think of our elders and understand them; We should begin to satisfy our happy life. For the future, for the future, for the day when we arrive on the earth.