What is even more exasperating is that Liu Yang is still self-righteous after cheating.
Can Liu Yang, who can't even afford her mother's surgery, be eligible to cheat? He cheated, not because he loved Wei Yayun, but because he had no money.
Without money, marriage will become a chicken feather.
Liu Yang and Zhi Zhi earn only 265,438+0,000 yuan a month. They have a hard life in Shanghai, especially after Yu Wei. Both of them are adhering to the concept that no one can suffer from children, and most of their monthly expenses are spent on children.
In order to get children out of their present lives, Zhi Zhi sent them to elite kindergartens with great strength and tried every means to enter the circle of rich women.
In front of the rich, the embarrassment of Liu Yang and Zhi Zhi is obvious.
Zhi Zhi deliberately catered and lowered his posture, which made him unbearable, so the two men quarreled about it.
Later, the arrival of mother aggravated the contradiction between them.
Mother forced them to have a second child, and the main reason why they didn't have a second child was money.
Without money, I dare not have a second child. Their mother forced them to face the fact that they had been trying to escape: their life was just an illusion.
Their mother's hospitalization added to their pain.
They can't even raise money for the operation.
The poor and stingy couple are very sad. Economic status plays a great role in marriage. As the saying goes, problems that can be solved with money are not problems.
52. When poor and stingy couples can fall in love, don't give money to the corner of time. Once trapped by money, even the best relationship between husband and wife will be cracked.
Anxiety, anxiety and sadness caused by lack of money cannot be overcome by emotions.
Money is the main cause of marital problems.
Without money, he can't find a sense of superiority.
Male chauvinism and lack of money like Liu Yang are "special weapons" for his self-esteem.
Liu Yang comes from a small place. He graduated from a famous Jiaotong University, bought a house in Shanghai and got married, which made him feel great, especially compared with people in his hometown.
In his heart, he thinks he is very successful, and he is really successful. So he happily said to her after drinking: Your husband is the director and you are the director's wife.
There is a stubborn pride in his heart.
However, this pride is vulnerable to reality.
Your proud ending is just the beginning for others. In the unknown company, he was subjected to various calculations, pressures and repression, endured many grievances, and only made small achievements.
And this achievement, I am always afraid of being taken away by others.
A person with lofty aspirations can't find a sense of superiority or even existence by blocking all kinds of walls in reality.
This feeling is especially obvious when I see my wife's ambition.
He wanted to buy a cup for Yayun, but he accidentally gave it to Zhi Zhi. But Zhi Zhi didn't want to use the cup at all, so she returned it and exchanged it for a shopping voucher.
At that moment, his heart was desperate.
Thinking that he was so poor after he married Zhi Zhi, his inner superiority disappeared.
Without money, let his mind endure constant "violence."
No money, cheating is his way to escape.
They can't find what they want at home, so they try to find it outside.
Then he met Wei Yayun.
Like him, Wei Yayun was born in the countryside. He has been "the hope of the whole village" since childhood. He was admitted to a famous university and stayed in Shanghai with great hopes.
For a young girl like Wei Yayun, Liu Yang's life is undoubtedly successful. It was in her that Liu Yang found what he called "superiority".
In her, he can enjoy his "success".
All the blows he suffered in his work and life, he can find a balance in her.
More importantly, she is the best way for him to escape.
Give him the cup straight back, which makes him very angry. However, Yayun's photo of the trophy uploaded in the WeChat circle made him feel his value.
Liu Yang doesn't love elegance more, but he can get a break from her and escape from the pain of real life.
When he cheated, he didn't want to face the reality and escape.
The rich cheat to seek excitement; Cheating without money is seeking escape.
There are many excuses and reasons for men to cheat.
But they can enjoy it for a while, not for a lifetime; They can escape temporarily, but not forever. The marriage between Liu Yang and Zhi Zhi should really be based on each according to his ability, rationally planning the children's lives, discussing their careers with each other, going hand in hand, and striving for a future life by his own efforts.
Escape can't solve their own practical problems, nor can it solve Liu Yang's psychological problems.
The key to solving all this is to make money.