Today, I am here to talk about how to correctly handle and treat the dormitory relationship, and give you some suggestions and solutions from people who have experienced college life in the past two years.
Respect ≠ Compromise We can respect our roommate's behavior habits, but it doesn't mean that we should indulge her blindly. We should learn to express our demands when necessary. For example, when we are going to sleep, our roommate will brush videos, laugh, play games or even beat wheat, and we should actively express our demands.
Don't be a good person. Some students are slow to respond. At the beginning, they will inevitably be good guys who have worked for a while to integrate into the dormitory. They thought that their roommates could recognize themselves, but as time went on, their demands on you to do this and that increased. At this time, we should understand one thing: roommates will not be nice to you just because you are nice to her, so we should learn to refuse, not be nice.
Don't talk behind your back. Don't treat your roommates as bosom friends, because your secret may also be their talk after dinner. Of course, if a roommate speaks ill of another roommate in front of you, at this time, you should not participate in it, but also discuss it, otherwise, you may be the next one to be said. After all, it is not uncommon to have four people and five groups in a dormitory.
Try to keep quiet, such as listening to music, watching drama, playing games, wearing headphones, getting out of bed softly, ringing the bell during rest, making phone calls to the balcony, etc. Keeping silent is a respect for others and a good way to avoid many contradictions. We should take the initiative to meet these basic requirements in order to maintain a good relationship in the dormitory.
To protect your personal belongings, you should put them in the closet and lock them. Things involving money must be counted clearly. Even a few dollars for bus fare, please make it clear. Really don't have to be human. Some people can do you a small favor and study for half a year, so please count the money clearly in order to keep your ears clean and reduce conflicts.
Be sure to settle the money with your roommate and go out to AA to eat. You can owe it, but you must remember. Be sure to remind the other person that she owes you money, because sometimes she really forgets, so don't be embarrassed to say it, otherwise she will suffer, and then remember to pay back the other person's money!
Keep the dormitory clean.
Personal hygiene must be cleaned, underwear, socks, etc. It should be washed by hand, personal belongings should be put away, and the dormitory environment should be maintained by everyone. We should work together to clean it up. It is best to arrange the cleaning staff every day, which is very important and often the source of contradictions.
Respect for Privacy In the daily communication in the dormitory, we should respect the hobbies, habits and privacy of others, and even if the relationship develops to a relatively close level, we should maintain the basic communication boundary. Don't ask questions that others don't want to answer over and over again. Don't open your roommate's bed curtain at will. This behavior is really bad.
Learn to apologize. Don't worry too much if you accidentally have a conflict with your roommate. If you are really wrong, just apologize. There was a girl in our dormitory before, and she always spoke unintentionally, which hurt people. After we communicated with her, she realized her problem and apologized to us. Now she has a good life. Just be yourself after apologizing. Just pretend that nothing happened and don't always care.
When studying in the library, it is best to study in the library, not in the dormitory. Reviewing in libraries and study rooms is often more efficient and will not affect roommates. After all, the dormitory is just a place to rest, so it is best to go to the library early in the exam month to occupy a seat!
Finally, I want to say that roommates in the university will be irreplaceable wealth in the whole life. Having a good dormitory relationship will make us have a better and more enjoyable university experience, and I sincerely hope that everyone and roommates can get along well and fall in love.