Education in China, whether in university, high school or junior high school, we all live on campus and share a dormitory with other students. In campus life, we have the most intersection with our roommates. Living in the same school, we need to handle the relationship well and coordinate some minor frictions, especially in universities, where roommates live far away. If the relationship is not handled well, living together for four years is still very painful.
There are two main reasons for the conflict with roommates in college.
1 psychological imbalance: I did cleaning today, why should I do it tomorrow? Why should I do it the day after tomorrow? Why don't you do it? I'll give you anything spicy, why don't you tell me everything!
2. once there is a contradiction in lifestyle, it is particularly difficult to solve, and no one can convince anyone. What's wrong with my voice? I always get up so early every day I just like talking on the phone with my date. I have used my lifestyle for twenty years. Why do you, a person who has only known me for a long time, tell me what to do with my lifestyle?
Therefore, the solution must be solved from these two aspects. For example, you can arrange a watch on duty, so that everyone can make a difference and be generous. Be sure to help my roommate and eat something in the future. If you don't give it to me, I won't give it to you next time
Don't exclude roommates even if their lifestyles are different. Every dormitory is the same! More running-in and more understanding! Try to blend in with everyone! Open-minded, open-minded, it will fade!