To tell you the truth, I am embarrassed to refuse other people's children's mouths. Well, this kid, if he went to college, otherwise he had no choice. How did he find me?

However, on impulse, I called her home and asked. Unexpectedly, my relatives said angrily, "Don't lend it to her! The child spends a lot of money on school, and there are no dance halls and karaoke bars. He also pays special attention to dressing up. Don't lend it to her! "

So I made an excuse not to borrow it.

Look at your question carefully. How can you not even have a thousand dollars at home?

This should be unreasonable. In ordinary families, if children need money for school, parents will take it out anyway.

It is simple to say that there is no money at home, but I just don't want to give you money.

And your grandmother, to tell the truth, should be an old man in her seventies and eighties. Does she earn a salary? Why didn't she borrow it? Did your parents also tell you that children spend money indiscriminately, so don't borrow it!

Therefore, it's no use complaining, but think about life!

This is grandma's fault. When the grandson goes to college, it's okay to borrow money and give money!

This problem is similar to that of the neighbors. The neighbor's grandson goes to a technical school and spends no less than 3000 yuan a month. Every time he asks his parents for money, it is a matter of course domineering. After a long time, his parents will complain. The young man was twenty years old, and of course he didn't want to listen to his parents' complaints, so he went to ask his grandmother for money. His parents only give his grandmother 500 yuan a year for living expenses, and her grandmother gave him all 500 yuan in a rage. He also said that her grandmother was too stingy.

The subject said that the child didn't go to college until he was twenty-two, and he was an adult. If parents don't give money, they will solve it themselves, and they can't borrow money from grandma. How can an octogenarian have the energy to take care of his grandson? Besides, is this obviously money?

If parents are filial, they must live with grandma. If they live together, parents are responsible for food, clothing, housing and transportation, so that you don't need them, grandma will naturally give them to you, because the next generation is closer.

Where there is grievance, there is debt. Don't judge anyone, but look at what you have done. A person has two pockets, one in the front and the other in the back. The front has advantages and the back has disadvantages. The front is obvious, but the back is invisible, so he always sees his own advantages and fails to see his own shortcomings, and always thinks that he is right and excellent.

People take the road, people earn money, no matter who owes you, be more understanding, more grateful, less complaining, have a good personality, get along naturally, and the scenery is everywhere, let alone the person you love! Blood is always thicker than water!

Grandma did the right thing. As an adult, I will break into my own world and lay the foundation for stepping into society in the future. Some children don't want a penny from their parents after they go to college, and they rely entirely on their own jobs to earn tuition and living expenses. There are children from poor families, children from rich families and children from rich families. Its purpose is to cultivate their ability to live independently and lay a foundation for society.

First, social competition is cruel, the survival of the fittest. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's ability to live independently and deal with problems from an early age. Adults will not accompany them all their lives, but always go their own way.

Second, the flowers in the greenhouse can't see the sun, but they will die when they see the light. So cultivate children and don't spoil them. Let them see the world through the wind and rain, fall more, be more careful, not fall into the trap, and not gain wisdom.

Third, parents or grandparents should not tire their children, give them whatever they want, or even take the initiative to send them. Eating with your mouth open and reaching for clothes can only encourage children to develop lazy habits and form incorrect outlook on life, values and even morality. Will not help them improve their ability to adapt to society. Tired of love is not to help them, but to hurt them!

You are 22 years old, and you are an adult. If you have any problems, find a way to solve them yourself. Don't look for grandparents. Grandparents are too old to take care of themselves. How do they take care of their children? !

You can't afford to go to college, so you can solve it with your parents. In fact, after applying for a student loan, tuition fees can be paid back slowly, and living expenses can be earned through work-study programs or Saturday and Sunday. It's not enough to go to your parents again.

Don't borrow it from grandma. Grandparents are so old that they have saved two coffin books all their lives, which is more precious than life. People are selfish, no matter how stupid and honest they are, they will reserve some for their old age and leave a way out for the future. If one day your grandparents are sick and need money, will your parents give it to them? ……

You may be from the countryside, right? As an old man in the countryside, he has worked hard for decades and spent all his money on marrying a wife. If he has no children to give her money in his later years, such an old man will be very poor and pitiful. Stop breaking their hearts. Any grandparents who don't love their children and grandchildren, I think if they are well off, they will definitely give generously. People are most afraid of being really poor.

Therefore, your mother-in-law didn't lend you money, so don't be too considerate of her. Young people should be self-reliant, self-reliant and open up a new world.

First, the old man has stopped working to make money, and the money in his hand is less than one point.

Second, if you ask for money with a straight eyebrow, even if you say borrow, your original intention should be to ask. I'm your grandson, and you have to pay, so you feel wronged if grandma doesn't give it to you.

Third, you didn't go to college until you were 22. It can be seen that you were either demoted or repeated before, and your grades were not good. Grandma doesn't believe you borrowed money to go to school.

Let me tell you what to do in such a situation.

First, if I call the school first to explain my predicament, most schools have student loans, and 1000 yuan is not a large sum, so I can borrow it and pay it back. Then, during school, I work to repay the loan.

Second, if there is no loan in my school, I will still ask my grandmother. But I will set up a written evidence and ask my grandmother's trusted relatives to be witnesses. If my grandmother had money, she would certainly lend it to me. Then at school, I earned 100, 100 by working to pay back the money.

Third, borrow money from good friends and write a written statement. Then work at school to pay back the money and earn 500 yuan.

Finally, the university 1 000 yuan is still very easy to earn, with seven or eight thousand national scholarships a year and many living allowances. You are 22 years old, so you can't rely on your parents and family for everything.

Also, those who say that grandma won't take care of her without paying will know how outrageous your words are when you get old. I will never forget my father holding my sister-in-law's hand at my grandmother's funeral and saying, we have no mother, we are children without a mother! Parents are where the soul belongs, and parents are the foundation of the family. From that day on, I vowed to be kind to all those who are kind to my parents, and now I feel at ease.

I just watched an American movie called Crazy Amusement Park, which is about a boy who is about to go to college. He asked his parents for money, saying that his business was 200 dollars short. Mom and dad's answer is that you go to work and can't ask for money from home anymore. No way, the boy went to the amusement park in town to earn money. In the amusement park, he met many young people who worked here like him. They fell in love, smoked marijuana, got drunk, crashed, and so on. A holiday is simply upside down. At the end of the holiday, when he was ready to go to new york for college with more than 1000 dollars, his mother asked him to leave the money, saying that it was only enough to repair his father's car. Naturally, he is responsible for compensation. In this way, he went to new york, delayed his study for a year, and had to work to earn living expenses and tuition ... This story tells the normal life of most young people in the United States. After 18, your family will basically stop supporting you, and you often have to rely on your own efforts to achieve your desired goals. Grandma didn't lend you money, probably just to let you know that you are an adult, you have to live within your means during college, your parents are not rich, and it is not easy to raise a college student, so you should learn to be frugal as much as possible, and you can wait until you graduate and have a job to buy some luxury goods. Your task now is to read a lot and study hard. ...

If I were you, I wouldn't ask grandma for money anyway. You are 22 years old, and grandma is at least 60! An old woman in the countryside can't earn money by herself. It must be given by the younger generation. Is it reasonable for the old man not to lend it to you? If grandma's money was given by your father, the old man wouldn't be so stingy. Most old people like their younger generation very much, so you can give it to them without asking them. There must be a reason why you didn't even ask her.

At present, 1000 yuan is still very easy to borrow, but you don't want to find a way. People in my shop often use it like this. They used flowers to sweep 1000 yuan in my shop, and I paid him 1000 yuan in cash. Just remember to pay it back next month, so you don't have to borrow this little money, not to mention the old man takes money seriously, because he can't make money. Old people must be worried that you can't pay back or spend money indiscriminately.

Young people remember a sentence: "Don't ask for help in trivial matters, it's better to ask for yourself than to ask for help". Times are good now. As long as you have the repayment ability, it is quite convenient for the bank to get a credit card. But if you have no repayment ability, don't swipe your credit card. If you can't afford it, you will become a deadbeat. Remember!

I think your grandmother is quite clever. You are 22 years old and have gone to college. It stands to reason that you still have the ability to earn 1000, such as tutoring, summer vacation, self-media and so on. You can make money in many ways.

Why don't you borrow money from your parents? It is normal for your grandmother not to borrow money from your parents. She knows that most of the money is borrowed and never paid back, because she thinks that your parents are unwilling to give you money, and this money should not be given to you.

It is also possible that you usually give grandma a bad impression and make her think that you are an unreliable person, so she is unwilling to lend you money.

It is also possible that you have a bad relationship with your grandmother, and the feelings between your relatives need to be managed. Usually, you need to spend more time chatting with your grandmother, give her more things, and make her old man like you, so that she will be nice to you. People are mutual, not as long as they are relatives who will be willing to help you unconditionally.

Of course, it may be that your grandmother takes money too seriously. There are many such people in life. They value money more than life. They are reluctant to spend money themselves, let alone give money to others, even if he likes this person again.

People still have to rely on themselves. If you have money, spend it. Try to make money if you have no money. Don't borrow things from the East. Living with dignity is better than anything.

The subject was 22 years old and was regarded as an adult. How dare you borrow money from grandma? You can earn money to subsidize your life by doing anything with work-study programs. If you borrow it from your grandmother and the old man refuses to lend it to you, you will bear a grudge. I really should call you a little turtle calf and go to college for nothing.

Young man, don't blame me for swearing. You have to be ambitious all your life, especially when you lend money. No matter whether you borrow it from your parents, grandparents or your aunts, it doesn't matter if anyone doesn't give it to you, because no one gives you money for nothing.

If you haven't lived for 22 years, you can only blame your parents for not teaching you how to be a man. Since you are a man, you must have self-esteem. What is self-esteem? Is to respect yourself! The biggest taboo of a big man is to reach out and borrow money from others for nothing. No matter how much money, it's all for self-esteem, okay?

You say grandma is not rich, but she is not poor either, and she still has some money in her hand, but then you can't think about the money grandma has saved. Your grandmother didn't lend it to you. Exactly. Because her old man is afraid that you will spend money lavishly and don't know how to be frugal. From the caring of the elders for their grandchildren, I think she is completely right. So, if you are a reasonable person, don't blame your grandmother for not lending you money.