High school is easy, and there won't be many people in front of you in every exam. When I get to college, every time I take an exam, those who are worse than you are behind you, and most people are in front of you. In an English exam, you got 78 points, and you felt so-so. Nima is the penultimate. Once I got 85 points, I felt better, with an average score of 85.5 ... The gap was not as big as usual.

Even if you try harder, you will only squeeze to the average at most. People's talents are different, we should admit it. Although you are a college graduate, once you leave your classmates, you can kill them by comparing with others (only in study), not to mention those who have never been to college, even those who graduated from 2 1 1 school and are not in grade one. Even scum in Tsinghua, go abroad.

Netizen 2:

I didn't go to an advanced school like Tsinghua. My previous university was one in the province. The professional courses in my class are all scum, and I have a bad record of failing two required courses. But I never feel inferior, because I play basketball well, I can repair computers, and the computer course (my major is not computers) is the first in my class, and everyone in my class likes me. I'm popular. Wow, haha, after graduation, I found that the people I worked with were also a bunch of idiots (people who made one or two mistakes and didn't know how to improve), and I was more confident in an instant.

Netizen 3:

In our countryside, people know that there are only two universities in China, one is Tsinghua and the other is Peking University. Only when you are admitted to these two universities can you be considered a university. Since I understand things, there have been four students in the village, all of whom are fresh graduates. 1990, they went to Tsinghua to repeat their studies. A few years ago, they went to Tsinghua, one year ahead of me, but strictly speaking, they are not from the village. People's primary school settled in Beijing with their parents and returned to our village during the Spring Festival. Even so, the villagers are proud to speak.

He relishes that there were several literate people in his previous generations, and he is related to his family. For me, a deceased Fudan student who is a local candidate (my Shandong) and several classmates who went to the second school are like air. Some villagers said, where is Fudan? I haven't heard of it, let alone other schools, which shows how big the psychological shadow area caused by the Qing North is. I've thought about it many times. Even if I study for two years and go to Tsinghua to be a scum, I can sing a big wind song at home, and my parents can show off with me.

Netizen 4:

My high school classes are all top student. I can't help it In a city with a population of 654.38+00000, my high school enrolls 654.38+0.20 students, which is the key university at the bottom. I found enough confidence in college. Handsome, good at basketball, grades are not important at all. After entering the society, I found that others are so stupid that whatever they do is the first. But, so what? It's just a life above ordinary people. Kings and princes, history, don't even think about it. To put it bluntly, whether it's top student or a scum, people live all their lives. There is not a trace in the sky, and birds have flown by.

Netizen 5:

I haven't been there. However, it is better to study as a graduate student in Tsinghua than as an ordinary student in a second-or third-rate university. The people you know, the things you have done, and the world you have seen will be many and good. I dare not say absolutely, but most of them are. Besides, what about scum? Just after graduation, the diploma will be much more convincing.

Netizen 6:

Is it a school scum? The total credit is only 50% in the department. Except for a few who dropped out of school and transferred to the next session, the number just before me was equal to that after me. However, some birds, people and animals are so fierce that they killed Jimmy Dovich's 5000 math problems in his freshman year. All kinds of physical pictures are clear, and the mathematical model is practical and effective. In theoretical mechanics, I can revel in reasoning with teacher Wang Qing, so forget it. In the electrodynamics exam, all these animals handed in their papers within two hours. Unfortunately, we stayed up until eleven o'clock at night.

Most of these scholars went on to be academics and eventually became professors in various universities. Ordinary people, like me, are all in the technical field. Victory lies in stability. In the face of that kind of person, it is good to have a balanced mentality.

I focus on a 985 university scum. After playing the game for four years, my mind was full of the compression of blind monks, and I kept repeating Hassan Giving and A Library in my mind. As a result, I failed 35 credits and received three academic warnings, but I finally survived and made up the failed subjects. I graduated from my senior year this year, and I haven't found a job yet, because I am taking a make-up exam when others are looking for a job. What is more sad is that I played League of Legends for four years before I got the golden position, but although the university is a bad student, at least I still have friendship and love. At the beginning of the year, I married a female classmate who was a junior in top student. My best man is also top student, who is now in graduate school.

In 985 University, I gained "infinite" tolerance. Even though I am a loser, my classmates are still very polite and tolerant to me, and my teacher is persuasive to me. Although the occupation of teachers in universities has nothing to do with students, every professor and teacher will tell me to study hard and not to play games when they see me. The instructor's sophomore year forced me to study in her office. She stared at me, ashamed that I was full of role enlargement tricks in the game and kicked the instructor downstairs.

When I was a freshman, I sprinted for the gold medal for five days and spent the night in an Internet cafe. My girlfriend was afraid of my sudden death and stayed with me every day until exam week. She didn't get a scholarship that semester, and now she doesn't get a graduate degree because of the gap between the first place and the second place. I have insulted her many times as a jinx because she failed in her promotion and even tried to kill her with the Knox Sass guillotine. I feel very sorry for her now.

I still feel inferior in college. My best brother has started blogging directly. Although I had an unpleasant experience with him, I still feel inferior. I've been wondering why I'm so rubbish. I also have difficulty in finding a job because of my poor grades. Now many jobs need report cards. My report card is so ugly that I can hardly find a job. Although my girlfriend said she would support me, I don't want to eat soft rice all my life. I am really confused about the future now, because my language ability has deteriorated seriously in recent years and I am afraid of socializing. I really don't know what to do. Every time I pretend to be top student in front of my parents, they will find out sooner or later. Now I try to learn professional knowledge to make up for my previous course knowledge, but I always feel useless and uncomfortable, and I don't know what to do. Fortunately, I was lucky that no one put pressure on me. Now I can only chew for a while.

2 1 1 scum pass by, often fail classes, often skip classes, spend more than half of their time reading in the library, and play games less than half of their time. Now he's doing well. He struggled for five or six years to get married without his parents having a car and a house.

I think my college grades are very small. On the one hand, universities mainly cultivate independent personality and self-esteem, as well as the ability to think and learn independently.

If you are still cynical after graduating from college, you may not be particularly qualified.

Students fall into two categories:

One is to try to do meaningful things outside of study, such as part-time, entrepreneurship, self-study in other fields and so on. Such scum has a future.

There is also a crazy game, sleeping without class. The prospect of such scum is worrying!

The essential difference between the two lies in whether you have improved your ability and are motivated!

Going to school at the same time, the same classroom, the same teacher, learning the same knowledge, but getting different grades shows that there is something wrong with children's learning attitude. Graduated at the same time, the same diploma, entered the same society, but made different achievements, indicating that children's comprehensive quality and comprehensive ability are problematic. There are four connections in a person's life: the first time: the successful connection between primary school and junior high school. The second time: the successful connection between junior high school and senior high school. The third time: the successful connection between high school and university. The fourth time: the successful connection between university and society. These four butt joints are interlocking, and what is needed for a close connection is seamless butt joint. If a link is not well connected. If there are weak links, there will be problems. It will directly affect children's school mileage. Affect a child's life. As can be seen from the above four docking, the first three docking undoubtedly require children to dock with excellent and qualified academic performance. The final connection between university and society depends on children's comprehensive strength and quality. Therefore, UNESCO proposed. Teenagers in 2 1 century should have four societies. The first is to learn to learn, the second is to learn to survive, the third is to learn to develop, and the fourth is to learn to get along with others. It can be seen that learning to learn only accounts for 1/4 of a person's comprehensive ability, and the other three societies account for 3/4. Academic achievements and professional knowledge are only a person's hard power, and learning to survive, develop and get along with others is a person's soft power. In this world, the highest level of success is softness and firmness. Therefore, the diploma does not represent the level, and the score does not represent the ability. Learn to survive, learn to develop, and learn to get along with others. This is the core of family education. Only in this way can children's comprehensive ability meet the needs of the real society, learn useful things, find jobs and survive and develop. Excerpted from a very important chapter in the newly published Practical Manual of Family Education in the Second Classroom in Guangdong Province: the method of combining education with practice. Share it with everyone.

My university is neither 2 1 1 nor 985. Let's see how the netizens reply * _ *

Netizen 1: There is only one word, anxiety. Only when you have face can you fight for your father, and then you will know what shame is.

Netizen 2: Some people can't stand the gap from Tianzi to ordinary people, and even drop out of school.

Netizen 3: in the face of that kind of person, it is good to have a balanced mentality; Ordinary people, like me, are all in the technical field. Victory lies in stability.

Netizen 4: Whether you are a bully or a scum, you just live a lifetime. what do you think?

My study is average, and I think I am so low-end in college. I like top student, dare to challenge the teacher (debate) in class, and only dare to bow my head and clap; You don't need to review before the exam, you can take the exam easily. But I go out early and come back late every day, taking a nap in the middle. My score is half that of top student, and I pass at most. There is also the naked test of CET-4 and CET-6 in top student, which passed once, and I have participated in CET-4 twice, waiting for the third time @ _ @

Every time the monitor informs me of the scholarship and promotion, I just sit quietly and know that it's none of my business. Oh, I envy you. Knowledge is money.

There are three high schools in my county * * *. Due to the lack of educational resources, I failed to be admitted to a Tsinghua Peking University for many years, but I was finally admitted to one. Later, I heard that I was forced to drop out of Tsinghua because of repeated failures.

I still remember the scene when he was admitted to Tsinghua. A dazzling red banner was hung at the school gate to congratulate him on being admitted to Tsinghua University. He was carried around by people with big red flowers on his chest. Later, I went back to school to talk about his mental journey of being admitted to Tsinghua. At that time, the playground was crowded with people, and we expected to create a miracle of life like him and reach the peak of life.

At that time, we couldn't understand a person who had the strength to be admitted to Tsinghua, but still couldn't be admitted to the university. When we went to college and saw the lifestyle of classmates or friends around us in college for four years, we understood.

No matter which school, even 2 1 1 or 985 or other top schools, people often don't go to class, sleep in dormitories, play games late, or go out to play late into the night. Some people are students, but most are social people. They have no time and mind to study at all, and then they will suddenly attack during the exam. If the surprise attack is unsuccessful, they will naturally fail and will only be expelled from school.

It's your choice to be a bully or a scum in college, get a scholarship every year or fail a course occasionally. Even the best schools have scum. Some people just muddle along in college for four years and have hardly been to the library. They haven't borrowed a book in college for four years, and even their classmates haven't recognized all of them, but this doesn't prevent them from graduating smoothly.

When recalling the past, how did you spend the best college time, what did you feel, and did you regret it? I believe that time will tell you all the answers.

I didn't graduate from the university in 2 1 1 or 985, but I'm also a provincial scum. I haven't played games in college for three years. I didn't go to class every day a few years ago, and I basically failed the class. Watching the students graduate class by class, I want to cry, but I am very practical in my study. Basically, I can't get along in college. After graduation, I came out to regain my confidence and took an examination of villages and towns.

985 is a quasi-school scum. Because there are 30 people in our class, there is a huge gap between the top 20 and the bottom 10. Wandering around 15-20 every time, you can't make progress if you work hard, and you won't be at the bottom if you don't study. Then the university mainly stayed in football and art clubs and married a wife by the way. Apart from the hard work of taking the postgraduate entrance examination for half a year, the rest of my life was extremely comfortable. I really miss it. Finally, I was admitted to the graduate school of our school. At that time, colleges and universities had not expanded their enrollment, and graduate students were still valuable. In the words of our classmates, I didn't delay anything.

If you want to say what it's like to be a student in 2 1 1 and 985 universities, you really can't see what it's like as a student. Let's not talk about how difficult it is for a student to get into 2 1 1 and 985 schools. Let's just say that anyone who can get into 2 1 1 and 985 universities is called a student. Where can they go?

Then the scum mentioned here should be a relatively conceptual scum. As the saying goes, comparison hurts. Yes, the contrast effect is very different from the simple effect. For example, the students in two books claim to be scum compared with the students in one book, and so on. In that case, the experience will be very relaxed. What is the experience of being a slag in 2 1 1, 985 and other famous schools?

There are two kinds of scum. One is a pure scum who is ignorant, content with the world of university and doesn't study at all. There is also a kind of thinking that you are scum, ranking lower in the class, and there is a gap with excellent students, so you are called scum. The difference between the two scum is that the former doesn't study, has no skills, can't satisfy the status quo, and even graduation is a problem in the future. Although the latter claims to be scum, but study hard, although not as good as excellent students, but not much difference.

From the school's point of view, the students in 985, 265, 438+065, 438+0 schools are definitely not dregs compared with the students in other schools, and they can't experience the experience of being dregs in such schools. But you can also experience it through the postgraduate entrance examination.

In short, being a scum in a famous school will be better than those of us in ordinary universities. Only from the people we know, the educational resources and the world we see, will we be more and better. We can't say absolutely everything, but most people do.