I have a friend who suddenly didn't want to study when he was in senior three. No matter how persuaded by his family and friends, he won't study unless he studies. He studied in a vocational high school and was able to take the exam in February. It was already 65438+February. We all advised him to stick to it for a while, but he just died and gave up his studies and exams. Then I started wandering and had no place to live. As far as I know, he has changed many occupations, worked as an apprentice in other places, worked as an apprentice in a factory, and worked as an apprentice with a chef in a big shop ... When he first entered the factory, he earned 4,000 yuan a month, and he really envied me as a college dog, because he paid himself more than 10,000 tuition fees every year, but he didn't learn anything. People earn 4000 yuan a month, which is a huge sum in a year. At that time, for a long time, I even thought about the significance of going to college. I thought that after graduating from college for four years, people almost saved the down payment on the house.

Two years later, he still doesn't have a regular job, and he didn't use my starting salary of 4000 to get promoted and raised step by step. He doesn't have any savings, and the money he earns every month is not enough to go to Internet cafes to play games and buy equipment. He will call me and tell me some things he has encountered recently. Listening to people and things far away from me, I suddenly feel that reading is very meaningful. It keeps me away from those people and things.

He is now an apprentice in a small restaurant. He is bullied by cooks with low wages every day. He talked about a girlfriend who was hot and cold to him. She has no savings, likes playing games in Internet cafes, and basically belongs to the moonlight clan. She is confused about her future every day. He told me that everyone who enters the society will say: students are the happiest. He said he wanted to come back to study, but it was impossible.

Take me for example. I am not sure about my future, and I live in turmoil and anxiety every day. But I'm still glad that I went to college. My life can be temporarily freed from those trivial things, and there can be poetry and distance. Students are the simplest. Besides studying, we basically only have to play the coquetry, play with roommates and play the coquetry with our parents, as if we were children. In order to buy a lipstick and a beautiful dress, scrimp and save for a month, and find various extra jobs and part-time jobs for post-holiday travel and holidays.

Besides, the circles we live in are really different. Obviously, we are the same age, but the people we know are completely different.

I have a good life now, better than him.