Maybe the orientals are naturally reserved. Compared with westerners, the word "sex" is always avoided. Including the education we received from childhood, we don't have a comprehensive understanding of sex. In fact, scientifically speaking, it is just a subject. We can face it frankly, this is not a shy topic. For contemporary college students, especially those in love, we should have a correct understanding and mentality of "sex".

Views on college students' sexual behavior can be roughly divided into the following four categories.

As can be seen from the above picture, most college students are not opposed to sex, do not accept it, do not accept it. This small editor's point of view is that under the premise of ensuring safety, it is not bad to be with people you like.

"Sex" can be noble or vulgar, depending on how you treat it. It can make people happy or destroy a person. I don't object to college students having sex, but only if the other person is someone you really like and you won't regret your current behavior; Second, we must put good measures.

Some sensitive words are mosaic.

This is a screenshot of a married girl chatting with a girl who is about to enter college. As a sister of past experience, what I said is also very reasonable. For girls, this is the principle and the bottom line; So do boys. This is a responsibility, but also to protect each other.

No matter who you are, you can't have sex with people just because you are on a whim or out of curiosity.

Here I want to give a real example, hoping to attract more attention. 20 10 a girl suddenly had a big fight with her mother because her parents didn't know when she came home pregnant in her junior year. Because it is the first child, she doesn't want to have an abortion, so she can come down. Later, she married the child's father and got a sloppy marriage certificate. Later, the child's father abused the girl, so she divorced again. The girl returned to her parents' home with her children. Fortunately, the girl has strong ability and seized the opportunity to develop WeChat business. Later, she became rich economically, re-established a new family and lived happily. I just told her everything in concise language, but I can imagine how difficult it is for her to go through these things ... and all this is because she did something wrong in the past, and maybe no one told her the consequences until she experienced it herself.

So if you decide to have sex with someone, you must make sure that the other person is someone you love and reliable, and you must also take safety measures. Remember, this is the bottom line.

Of course, these are all Bian Xiao's own views. Some students feel "unacceptable" for a reason, which is understandable. I hope this article can help those boys and girls who are confused.