The Importance of Business Etiquette to Contemporary College Students
1, which contributes to the improvement of ideological and moral cultivation.
In a sense, etiquette is education, and education is quality. Every word and deed and every move of a college student in daily life are usually related to his personal qualities. Social etiquette reflects the most common moral relationship in people's life and interaction, and is the basic factor to ensure the smooth progress of communication activities and the normal order of social life. Systematic social etiquette knowledge can enrich their etiquette knowledge, make them clearly master the etiquette norms that meet the requirements of socialist morality, and guide them how to restrain their behavior according to the social etiquette norms in real life, and really do it. Being sincere inside and acting outside, being wise inside is obvious in words? , organically unify the internal moral quality and the external etiquette form, and become a modern person who truly deserves the performance and moral quality of high civilization.
2, help to establish good interpersonal relationships.
The ancients believed that learning in the world and human cultivation were articles. ? This sentence is actually about the importance of communication. Former US President theodore roosevelt also said: The first element of success is to know how to do well in interpersonal relationships. ? Etiquette is the premise of interpersonal communication and the key to people's communicative life. No social communication activity can be separated from etiquette. The more advanced human beings are, the more socialized their daily lives are, and the more etiquette is needed to regulate social life. Paying attention to etiquette can build good interpersonal relationships. The Book of Rites says:? If a gentleman is polite, he will be harmonious outside and have no complaints inside. ? In interpersonal communication, if a person can understand a little knowledge of communication etiquette on different occasions, he can be more easily integrated with the object of communication. What does Locke think is the function of etiquette? Let him respect others and get along with others? . On the contrary, if a person doesn't know the relevant etiquette knowledge, he may be isolated by some social occasions.
Social etiquette plays a very important role in coordinating interpersonal relationships. It is the link and regulator of interpersonal relationship. Because the basic principles of social etiquette are respect for others, sincerity and friendliness, which can connect the feelings between people, build a bridge of friendship and coordinate various interpersonal relationships; It is also helpful to establish and develop a new relationship of mutual respect and friendly cooperation between people. Even when there are some unpleasantness, misunderstanding and collision between people, through a polite expression, a form of etiquette, we will arm in arm and regain mutual understanding and respect; Strangers who meet for the first time will become close friends as long as their manners are comprehensive. Luo Yin in the Tang Dynasty once said: If you respect one person, all the people in Qian Qian will be happy; One person is slow, and thousands of people complain. ?
3. It helps to promote the physical and mental health of college students.
Some college students lack social skills, which leads to frustration or narrow communication scope. The result of long-term development is loneliness, lack of friends, and some psychological obstacles, which are not conducive to the healthy development of psychology. Social etiquette is a special language. Learning and mastering the basic knowledge and norms of social etiquette can successfully open the door to various communication activities and establish harmonious interpersonal relationships. In this way, strengthening social etiquette education is not only the main way to form a good and harmonious social psychological atmosphere, but also helps to promote the physical and mental health of college students. Practice shows that good interpersonal relationship helps to improve college students' self-confidence and self-esteem, reduce frustration, relieve inner conflicts and anguish, vent anger, depression and pain, and reduce loneliness, loneliness and emptiness. These are very beneficial to the physical and mental health of college students, and will also enable college students to avoid the generation of bad emotions to the maximum extent. Even if they have bad emotions, they can be effectively resolved.
The psychological adjustment effect of etiquette education on college students is mainly manifested in the following three aspects: First, eliminate inferiority and enhance self-confidence. Paying attention to the beauty of appearance will no longer be just an external thing, but more is to constantly improve people's spirit, so that over time, inferiority and shyness will gradually disappear and self-confidence will be enhanced accordingly. Second, etiquette education can help college students develop good behavior habits. Because etiquette education is to guide students from daily life, social occasions and other aspects, and to develop good behavior habits from small things. Thirdly, etiquette education can improve college students' social adaptability. Etiquette education guides students how to respect and care for others, handle their relations with others and society, and improve their adaptability to the social environment.
4. It is helpful for college students to better go to society.
College students will eventually go to society, and there are many things to learn in the process of socialization. Social etiquette education is an indispensable part in the process of socialization, because etiquette is a compulsory course in the whole life journey. ? Can't stand it if you don't learn manners? . For college students who are about to enter the society, they will face the challenge of choosing their own jobs and competing for posts. In job hunting, people will not only pay attention to their professional knowledge and skills, but also pay more attention to their comprehensive qualities, including professional ethics, ideological level and etiquette cultivation. Etiquette cultivation is a weak link in college students' cultivation. Their study of lifestyle mostly depends on the limited interpersonal environment and their parents' words and deeds, which are scattered and prone to deviation. This requires that etiquette education should be carried out according to the actual situation of students in universities, so that they can master the necessary social etiquette knowledge, overcome various psychological obstacles, make up for their lack of self-cultivation and improve their quality, so as to have a ticket to go anywhere? Letter of recommendation? .
Educating college students on social etiquette so that they can master all kinds of behavioral norms that meet the social requirements can not only meet the needs of college students to step into society smoothly and better promote their socialization, but also cultivate their ability to adapt to social life and improve their social psychological endurance. China is in the tide of reform and opening up. If college students want to gain a foothold in a highly competitive society and display their ambitions, they must seriously study the etiquette and rules of being a man, understand the rules and norms of how to get along with others, and use etiquette as a lubricant to communicate with others, so as to make themselves comfortable and relaxed in society.
5, is conducive to promoting social civilization
Generally speaking, a person's education reflects quality, and quality is reflected in details. Etiquette reflecting personal upbringing is one of the symbols of human civilization. The etiquette level of a person, a unit and a country often reflects the civilization level, overall quality and overall education level of this person, this unit and this country. Etiquette is an important symbol of a nation and a country's civilization. With the rapid development of market economy, interpersonal communication has become more and more frequent, especially after China joined the WTO. Etiquette, comity and politeness are not only business cards for Chinese people to go to the world and communicate with the world, but also become part of the investment environment and national image.
Etiquette education is the most basic content in the socialist spiritual civilization education system, because being civilized and polite is the actual embodiment of people's spiritual civilization. Popularizing and applying etiquette knowledge is the need to strengthen the construction of socialist spiritual civilization. Through etiquette education, let college students know their speech, manners, appearance and clothes can reflect a person's ideological cultivation, civilization and mental outlook. However, everyone's civilization is not only related to their own image, but also affects the spiritual outlook of the whole school and even the spiritual civilization of the whole society. If everyone speaks etiquette, our society will be full of harmony and warmth.
The present situation and reasons of college students' business social etiquette
Nowadays, it has become an indisputable fact that some college students have communication difficulties. The main performance is that you can't live independently and can't express yourself; Not sociable, do not know how to communicate with people; Do not understand the communication principle; Some tend to be autistic and not easy to be touched; Some communicate for the sake of communication, go with the flow, and sacrifice their correct principles of being a man. These phenomena are mainly caused by the following reasons:
1, the lack of family education
Most parents of contemporary college students lack rational, scientific and correct guidance in educating their children. Treat children as the apple of your eye, take care of them in every possible way, and let them develop gradually? I am the center? Consciousness is incompatible with the principles of etiquette, self-discipline, respect for others, tolerance and equality. In terms of educational content, there is a certain one-sidedness, blindness, conformity and quick success.
2. The deviation of school education.
Good exam results mean good teaching results, and the main task of education is to cope with exams, which is the understanding of quite a few people on education and schools in today's society. This ignores the education and cultivation of students' personal etiquette. Due to the lack of etiquette knowledge and poor communication skills, they neglected their autonomy and went their own way when they left their parents to enter university life alone, and some bad behaviors gradually emerged. Some people, under the influence of some bad social atmosphere, lack of etiquette knowledge has become a real impolite behavior, and a short trip will make a lasting regret.
3. The negative impact of society
Due to the impact of the market economy, the current social and cultural values and ethical values are in the process of reconstruction from disorder to order, and some traditional concepts are being impacted by various kinds? New trend of thought? 、? New things? Challenge. There are some disorders in the field of ethics, and all kinds of immoral, uncivilized and etiquette-violating phenomena in society have a negative and negative impact on college students in the initial stage of various concepts. Some college students' recognition of traditional social ethical values is reduced, and the lack of etiquette cultivation will inevitably lead to their moral confusion, cognitive imbalance and psychological imbalance, showing anti-social norms.
4. Lack of self-cultivation.
Today's society is an era that attaches great importance to the image of organizations and individuals. Nowadays, college students are also very concerned about their image. They strengthen the cultivation of various abilities, such as the diversification of professional skills, high-level foreign languages and the pursuit of fashionable brand-name clothes, but some people don't realize the importance of expressing their knowledge and connotation in a formal way.