I want to tell you that many men don't want to marry a virgin. God is fair to everyone and has a reward. If a person is extremely irresponsible and wants to marry a virgin, isn't this karma? Even if it doesn't happen to him, it will happen to the people he cares about most. Bruce Lee's death is a mystery. One theory is that three days after his death, he thought of a foreign boss who claimed on the Internet that he killed Bruce Lee because Bruce Lee was pregnant with her daughter ... but Bruce Lee denied it. Later, Bruce Lee announced in the media that he would marry his future wife. When the boss's daughter heard about it, she not only committed suicide but also killed her own child. Later, the boss retaliated in various ways, which led to the destruction of the family. In the end, he chose a doctor to inject some medicine into Bruce Lee by some means, which eventually led to his death. Those cynics, do you think that if their women have been ... many virgins also care about whether their husbands are virgins. They said that if the husband is not a virgin, he would rather give the first time to those ducks, and everyone should be equal.
I'm almost 19 years old and still a virgin. I only made 1 girlfriend in the first year of high school, but I broke up because of her splash, and I haven't made it since I studied.
Here, I want to dedicate an article I read to all virgins and virgins, hoping that everyone can cherish themselves. Especially virgins!
"Not a virgin, even if you name ten thousand reasons, the reasons are all flowers, which refutes me, but only refutes the post. You can't change the sentence "virgin, never marry", which is deeply rooted in men's hearts.
Let me ask you one more question. When you go to a restaurant for dinner, the waiter gives you two pairs of chopsticks. One pair is well packed, the other pair has been unpacked, and the chopsticks have been broken. Which pair do you choose? Or even, the waiter brought you a pair of chopsticks that have been broken and used by others. I think you should argue with the waiter at this time why you want to give me a used chopstick.
If the waiter answers, "What you want is rice, not chopsticks. Just eat comfortably. Why don't you care if it is used by others? " I guess you have to scold her.
But I don't think it's much different from the following statement: "What you want to marry is a person, not that film. As long as you really love you and treat you well, why care about whether there is that film?"
I believe that any unmarried person who goes to the store to buy chopsticks will not buy chopsticks used by others, even if they have been used once, you will not buy them. Because you think it is dirty, in fact, chopsticks themselves are not dirty, and it is not because someone has used it that you think it is dirty. And this pair of chopsticks, you may only use it for a few months, or a year, and you are reluctant to buy a pair that others have used once.
Chopsticks that others have only used once make you feel dirty. So you have been in and out of the body countless times, so others won't feel dirty? You blame your virginity on men, saying, "Without men, there is no place." Who do you want chopsticks to argue with? Pants can also be said, "If no one uses me, will I get dirty?"
Now I want to add some omissions in my post. The purpose of writing this post is to hope that those girls who are still virgins will lead an honest and clean life, know how to cherish themselves and not do stupid things. I also hope that some men who have irresponsible thoughts about their girlfriends will stop your irresponsible thoughts. If you can't be responsible for this girl all your life, don't take the most precious thing from others.
I also hope you don't blame other men for caring about the virgin plot. If you do, blame the man who was inserted into your body but couldn't give you a marriage certificate. No matter how ugly other men are, only that one man is sorry for you.
By the way, I mean having sex with my boyfriend before marriage and losing my virginity. Not some girls who are forced to j, or who work hard to save their mothers, and so on. These girls deserve my sympathy and respect, and I salute them.
Supplement two, I want to ask you what's wrong? You look like your father-in-law with your head. What would your parents-in-law think of you if you knew that you had been dating other men for several years before you got married and had sex several times? How will you live in the next few decades and how will you face it? How many parents in this world are great enough to tolerate these and don't care at all?
Supplement three, no, you will say. You are not a virgin, why should you ask others to be virgins?
Then a man can also ask a question, "If you don't have a house yourself, why do you ask your husband to have a house?"
You might say, because I am a woman and you are a man, you should have a house.
The man can also say that because I am a man and you are a woman, you must be a virgin.
Supplement 4: Would you rather marry a virgin husband or have sex with other men several times? If you are given another chance to choose, you know your answer.
Supplement five, it takes two hands to make a sound. I think many girls are not forced by their boyfriends. Are voluntary. Don't say reluctant. At the last minute, you have gone to open a room alone with your boyfriend for one night. If you know how to love yourself, will you lose your virginity if you don't go to a room alone with him? If he stays in the girls' dormitory honestly, I can't imagine how he just gave up. He ran to the girls' dormitory and gave up with you in your bed.
First, if a girl gives her first time to a boy, there are two situations. First of all, she loves that boy very much. I believe everyone has heard the saying that it may take a lifetime to forget someone. Not to mention the man who changed himself from a girl to a woman. I believe that a girl loves a boy enough to give him all her most precious virginity, and she will never forget that boy. So, I won't marry this girl, because I'm not great enough to tolerate my wife remembering other men all her life. Second, girls don't love boys. Even the girl who casually gave her most precious thing to someone she didn't love. Will you accept it?
Second, non-virgins all think that a good man will not love himself because he is not a virgin. People who think they should love you instead of your movies. I want to tell you that a good man in your mind should be as great as Jesus. Can tolerate any mistakes you make. Can tolerate you for a lifetime, remember an irresponsible man. I can tolerate that every time you have sex with him, you compare him with the previous man, no matter who is capable. You can use your life to make up for the mistakes made by other men, and you can use your life to be responsible for others' randomness. Comfort your mistakes with the pimples in his heart all his life. I want to ask you, if a man loves you so much, don't you feel guilty? Don't you feel sorry for such a great man if you really meet him?
Third, don't make excuses for yourself. You can only say that men should not care about your past. But you can't say any reason to prove that being a virgin is more worthy of men's cherish. In fact, you know in your heart that you cannot be redeemed. The excuse you said is actually an excuse you made for yourself in your heart. You also know that you have made an irreparable mistake, and you want to blame this mistake on an irresponsible man. Yes, they are also at fault, they are irresponsible, but you don't want to take your legs.
Fourth, friends, if you have a younger sister who has a boyfriend, would you advise her to keep chastity or give it to that boy? On the night when you became out of place, did you dare to tell your bitter old mother that you were no longer a little girl? Don't you dare fantasize with your head. You tell your mother that I had sex with my boyfriend yesterday. Dare to imagine what your mother will look like at this time, what expression, what heart? If you become a mother in the future, you will say to your daughter, "If you love him, give it to him. Even if you don't get married, you will meet someone who loves you later, not a good man who loves your movies. " Would you say that to your daughter? If your future son is getting married, would you rather let him find a virgin or a girl who has slept with other children?
Fifth, if one day, after you get married, the boy who got your virginity comes to you with a lost face and tells you his deep pain and regret, what he said and regrets breaking up with you. Or after all these years, I really love you or something. Can you guarantee that there are no waves in your heart? Won't you remember some good times together in your mind? If your husband is not around at the moment, can you promise that you won't have sex with him again?
Sixth, misfits, when you see someone on the forum saying that they are all kinds of bad things, you may be very angry and want to say something to defend and refute, or feel that these men are simply humble and boring. Isn't this proof that their words touched your heart? This only proves that you care about that movie in your heart. 、
Seventh, the wrong person, maybe you feel wronged, you will say, "Without you men, would it be wrong?" I can tell you that the only man who took your virginity was that man. Even if every other man in the world destroyed ten virgins, they didn't do anything wrong to you. I'm sorry, only that person, only the person who made the mistake, only the person who should be responsible. A man committed a serious J. Should all men in the world be put in prison? Your future husband has nothing to do with you, but he will spend his life making up for other people's mistakes. Don't you feel ashamed at the thought of taking care of a woman who has given the most precious thing in her life, both mentally and physically?
Eighth, it doesn't matter whether you are a virgin or not. No, you won't read my post now.
Virgins, I have a suggestion for you. Before getting a marriage certificate, clip your thighs.
Dear friends, if you read my post and feel psychologically unbalanced and hurt, then go to the man who split his thigh for him and make him responsible for his actions.
No, my post is right or wrong. In the dead of night, think to yourself. Maybe you can refute me with various reasons and excuse yourself with these words, but I believe that you can't cheat your heart.
Male compatriots, if you can't bear the responsibility for a girl all your life, please don't commit iniquity. This kind of thing is immoral and will pay off. I am also determined not to find the wrong place to be my wife and not to be responsible for other people's mistakes. The more this happens, the more mistakes will be made, and the wrong person will be married to the responsible person!
According to aoyi. Com, a bride in Shenzhen just took off her wedding dress and couldn't wait to drag her groom to the notary office in Baoan District, Shenzhen, asking the notary to handle a "loyalty notarization" for them: if her husband "keeps a mistress" outside, he must accept the following penalties:
One is divorce.
The second is to transfer the property under his name to his wife.
Although this story is a bit funny, it also shows her attention to virgins.
Important physiological differences between virgins and non-virgins: According to the research of the British Institute of Anthropology, virgins and non-virgins will undergo great changes in physiology.
Physiology: Because the male semen enters the body, it will be absorbed by the vagina and then continuously circulate in the body. A man's androgen has a similar chemical reaction with her estrogen. The new substance produced by this reaction will produce subtle changes in a woman's body, and then it will be fixed. This is what people usually call "being nourished by love", so a woman will never forget the first man who changed her. If two people live for a long time, a woman will gradually look like the person she loves, so there is a saying that husband and wife look at each other. But what I don't understand is that after a man changes from a virgin to a non-virgin, there is no sign of any change inside or outside his body, which scientists are puzzled by.
Psychologically, because there is orgasm in people's subconscious, women's orgasm will gradually become civilized after physical contact, and women are also emotional, so women will never forget their first man psychologically, but men are different, and it is easy to feel orgasm without physical contact.
The origin of male virgin complex: this mainly comes from the possessiveness of men in nature. They all want their women to belong to them completely, so it is often difficult to accept women who have been transformed by other men, that is, they have completely lost the right to possess this woman, that is, it is difficult to accept the body changed by substances that other men react with her in sexual life. Because her change came from her first man, not him. Women want to be the last man they love, because men are guys who like the new and hate the old. At the same time, scientists still can't find the difference between physiology and psychology.
The British Institute of Anthropology found that virgins and non-virgins will undergo great changes in physiology, and the importance of virgins is also reflected in heredity.
At the virgin's first night, the sperm of hundreds of millions of men entered her body, and all of them autolysed except some of them flowed out of the vagina. When they autolyse, they will release a genetic material "nucleosome", which is born to women. -> absorbed by the internal glands of reproductive organs. At the same time, semen also contains a variety of sex hormones, which are also absorbed by women. Deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA), a genetic substance in absorbed sperm and sex hormones, can make maternal cells undergo genetic variation and be assimilated, which in turn causes changes in subsequent egg cells, thus producing the effect of "distance-free inheritance". In this way, even if this woman is pregnant with someone else's child in the future, the child may be like a man at the first night. Although this phenomenon is not universal, it exists objectively.
I want to remind you of the fact that a woman's first time is very precious, not just a film, but the first man in her life. Hormones in body fluids will adhere to the inner wall of women's uterus for a long time. The long-term concept is only 10 years, and 15 years or more. Whether you marry your first man or not, such hormones will have a certain chance to affect the personality, appearance and hobbies of the next generation.
In my life, children born to remarried women, friends and current husbands often look like their ex-husbands, and some even cause family conflicts. The husband thinks that his wife is having an affair, which is actually caused by the attachment of this hormone component. On the other hand, if the children born to themselves and their husbands are still likely to be influenced by a man, it is not a taste for both men and women, and this is the sacredness of virginity.
The test report shows that non-virgins will lose their original pure genes, and this change is permanent. After sexual intercourse, if a woman lets a man's semen enter the uterus, the uterus will secrete a liquid to provide energy for the sperm and let it live in the uterus for 1-3 days to prolong its relationship with the egg. -> the opportunity to combine. Moreover, it will kill some sperm with poor vitality and achieve the goal of eugenics. However, it is this secretion that, after decomposing sperm, absorbs some genes of sperm and preserves them. This preservation is permanent and will be passed on to the offspring of women. Can't be eliminated.
This is a research result, which proves that only virgins have pure genes to give birth to so-called offspring belonging to a man. The new survey also found that if a woman is pregnant, the baby's stem cells will enter the mother through the placenta with the umbilical cord, and these stem cells will stay in the mother's body for more than ten years, which is what men are most afraid of!
This study proves that only virgins can have pure genes and give birth to offspring that really belong to their husbands. "
Can you accept a virgin as your wife after reading this article?
After reading this article, I hope everyone can feel something and awaken everyone's conscience. Of course, if everyone feels the same way, I hope to keep it up.
A virgin, especially a virgin. thank you