In my opinion, college students should fall in love. Their life pressure during college is relatively small, so they can use the process of falling in love to exercise their ability and attitude towards love. College students' love motivation should be pure love motivation. Need to confirm mutual attraction, including personality, ideal, pursuit of true love and marriage. The pursuit of this aspect can ensure that love lasts forever. When the above motivation is at the core, the pursuit of physical form, family conditions and other material aspects will achieve the icing on the cake effect. After all, love itself contains physical and mental components. However, if, on the other hand, only the pursuit of physical aspects, such as body shape or family conditions, becomes the main driving force for establishing a relationship with each other, then the color of this relationship will be eclipsed with the passage of time.

As a college student, love is not the main part of college life, and the main theme of college life is learning. After graduating from college, the society has certain requirements for college students. During my college years, I still have to put my studies first and exercise my comprehensive quality, which is also an important foundation for a smooth relationship in the future. In the process of honing yourself, I also slowly cultivate the ability to love others.

Therefore, if college students put love relationship in the main or even dominant position, which leads to academic neglect, it will not be worth the candle.