Love and trust are the best education, but not all. Love and freedom can exist, but these should not be obstacles to setting rules for children. Between rules and freedom, children need to show it clearly as soon as possible. Because children can't understand, true love is to make you better. Children are very cunning and will use love as an excuse. For example, when criticizing him for not insisting on practicing calligraphy or writing carefully, he will use the excuse that "mother doesn't love me" to prevaricate his laziness and fear of difficulties.

Don't let your child regard carelessness and unprincipled as love, let alone think that he will naturally understand when he grows up. Love and trust are the foundation of education, but on this basis, there must be clear and good principles for children.

Double standards make children more disgusted with learning. Study and life should not be measured by two standards. In the present environment, many parents pay too much attention to education and ignore other things in life. They are strict with their studies, while treating other things can lower their standards. In fact, this is not right, which will make children lack skills in life and hate learning even more, because parents are only strict about learning!

The definition of education:

"Education" is a process of teaching others to think with knowledge as a tool, and to think about how to use what they have to create higher social wealth and realize their self-worth.

In the field of education, there are various definitions of "education", which can be said that different people have different opinions. Generally speaking, people define "education" from two different angles, one is the social angle and the other is the individual angle. The former Soviet Union and China generally define "education" from a social perspective, while educators in Britain and the United States generally define "education" from an individual perspective. Defining "education" from a social perspective can be divided into different levels.

Broadly speaking, all activities that improve people's knowledge and skills and affect people's ideology and morality are education. "Education" is regarded as a subsystem in the whole social system, which distributes and undertakes certain social functions.

The most essential understanding of education is the knowledge instillation and behavior guidance of people's thoughts by society; First, the object of education is people; Second, the content must be benign and meaningful, so that people can transform society.