Family is the place where children are enlightened and the real starting line of life. As the saying goes: "Mulberry trees should be raised from a young age, or they will be crooked when they grow up." In fact, people are the same. Children are born like a blank sheet of paper, and the environment plays a vital role in their growth. Children spend most of their time in the family, so every member of the family has a subtle influence on their growth and education. Nowadays, most parents care about their children's grades, seldom care about their conduct, don't respect their individual development, and just want their children to be their ideal appearance. Such family education is a failure.

Real family education is to treat children as independent individuals, respect them, listen more, understand more, and express more recognition and understanding, which is very lacking for many parents. However, treating children as independent individuals does not mean letting them naturally and completely graze. Parents should guide their children, help them to look at their studies and exams with a long-term perspective, have clear life plans and academic goals, guide them to constantly think about what kind of person they want to be, and let them learn consciously and actively instead of cramming aimlessly. In addition, parents should also teach their children to learn to adjust their emotions, be able to face all kinds of adversity, form a reasonable schedule and eating habits, and maintain physical exercise.

Any family education that trains children to be excellent step by step is a good family education. It is also important for adults to set an example. It is necessary for parents to educate their children from an early age to respect others and not to call names. Everyone will say hello, the elders will call first, and they will never be dumb. And often take care of the children you meet, how to address them, so as to be polite and popular. Parents lead by example, hardworking and willing to endure hardships, love to use their brains, and subtly let their children inherit, so that when they grow up, their children will have a bright future, a harmonious family and a happy life, which will be praised by their neighbors.