The emergence of love is based on the individual's social emotional needs. It is not an innate quality, but a habitual psychological tendency gradually formed under the influence of acquired environment and education.
A child without love is bound to be indifferent to others and ignore their suffering, and often base his happiness on their suffering. How can such a child gain a foothold in society? Ignoring the sufferings of the public will inevitably be abandoned by society. It can be said that the lack of children's love education is the biggest failure of family education.
Research shows that children are kind and compassionate by nature. When they first came to this world, they were full of love and sympathy for the world.
Children will react to others' feelings before they are one year old. We can often see this phenomenon: many children around one year old are together. If one child cries, other children will also cry.
When a child is about two years old, when he sees other children crying, he knows to coax and comfort him with food or play.
When the children are older, they will also comfort their crying partners with words and know how to accompany them quietly.
These phenomena show that children can feel the pain of others. The caring and caring behavior of children in their early years is a natural expression of their love. However, if the child's behavior cannot be encouraged and strengthened by parents and relatives around him in time, it will gradually disappear.
Therefore, whether a child can grow into a caring person the day after tomorrow depends on whether parents can give correct teaching and education.