In the next two months, after cleaning, students need to walk through the gymnasium and dump the garbage in the garbage chute of the old building. The school leader went to work after the operation. After finding the seal, he waved an iron bar to clean the garbage passage. A teacher he met said to him, "The General Affairs Office has posted a notice". The headmaster said, "Your sewer is blocked. Is it unnecessary to put a seal on it? " The teacher was speechless. "Take colleges and universities as your own days!" The words of the school leaders were deeply imprinted in the teacher's heart. Later, she also became the head of the team, always remembering "taking school as home".
2. Listen to the modesty of the educator, earnestly seek the confession of the object of education, and promote the other party to realize self-regulation in venting. When people have psychological conflicts, the natural requirement is to ask someone to tell them. Educators should be good at listening, that is, all opinions (naturally not necessarily appropriate) about the object of education should be listened to, showing understanding, adapting to the times in listening, and making the object of education get accurate results. Psychologists believe that listening carefully has completed half of the daily tasks of psychological counseling.
I still remember a good friend who studied medicine once said such a thing: one of his patients was diagnosed as incurable. The patient often visits him when he buys medicine. My doctor, a good friend of mine, often chats with him because of industry habits, but just listens quietly. On one occasion, the patient told a lot about his past, including happiness, bitterness, and many feelings and worries after illness. My good friend listened for a long time. When the patient finished speaking, he was suddenly enlightened and much more relaxed.
Later, I heard that the patient's mentality has been very stable before his death, and the mutual cooperation treatment is much more active than before. Moreover, the doctor judged that the life expectancy of three months has increased by nearly one year. My friend told me that he was glad that he didn't give the patient nonsense comfort and advice that day, but just listened to the story quietly. He said with great experience: "I don't know if this is my effect, but I know from this incident that only the body can seek medical advice, but listening can put a person's spirit in place."
3. Encourage educators to subtly and profoundly impress the hearts of the educated through various means such as language expression or writing. Stimulate its initiative and creativity, and develop its design potential. Encouragement comes from attention and trust. Unexpected solutions can often promote the inner shock of the educated object. Unforgettable memory of a primary school principal's childhood exam results;
Transfer halfway, the course is much behind. After a math test paper was handed out, I took it with trepidation and was surprised. The teacher didn't grade, but wrote two words: "ouch!" " . I understand the feeling of the lecturer. The teacher doesn't believe me. The teacher is giving me a chance. The teacher is waiting for me. The teacher is waiting for my diligence with such sincere jokes. I am confident that I can make up for the lost courses. Sure enough, I got 100 in another exam. Many years have passed, and I have experienced tests again and again. I have read countless papers, but only one failed and said, "Ouch!" My test paper has always been my collection.
4. Feeling According to the creation of the teaching situation, correctly guide the educational object to complete the emotional experience in the real experience and obtain the real experience. Understand the nature and laws of things. Without feelings, there is no whole process of education. Feeling success is an important way to cultivate self-confidence. Won the "bank!" In the feeling. The improvement of self-confidence concept. In order to overcome cowardice, a mother asked her fifth-grade daughter to buy 10 copies of Beijing Evening News. After half an hour, the child can't talk. Through ideological struggle, I overcame my vanity, gradually publicized loudly, and finally sold the newspaper. Selling newspapers in busy areas is a situational activity. Children have been honed, experienced success, and gained some ideas that cannot be obtained by persuasion and education alone.
5. Contrast makes the educated object look for differences in the comparison of things or feelings, and their hearts are shocked and awakened, and their hearts are sober. There is no understanding without comparison, and there is no education without comparison. The bigger the gap, the heavier the impression. In the gap, figuring out the realm of social moral life will certainly cause shame and guilt, and then get a leap in understanding and a promotion of faith. There is a story: in ancient times, a samurai wanted to be the first Sagittarius in the world. He visited excellent teachers and trained hard.
Finally, the situation of hitting the target was achieved, and the samurai was complacent. One day, I came across a monk in the depths of the mountain. The monk showed off his archery and pointed to two falcons in the sky. The samurai got the message and an arrow hit one of them, but the monk said, "What's the use of shooting an eagle with a crossbow?" The great god should not shoot ejaculation. " . After saying this, the monk raised his finger and pointed to a falcon in the sky, only to see it fall directly to the monk's feet like a heavy fall. The samurai was greatly surprised and sighed, "This is the ultimate goal of archery!"
6, twists and turns to the educational object's difficult problem, don't immediately use reasonable persuasion education, but give priority to with self-suggestion, enlightenment, etc. Make it know the regularity of things and understand the highest realm of daily life. It is often a successful countermeasure to retreat in order to advance and turn in order to go straight.
A student is a microbiology enthusiast and has collected many samples. His mother is a teacher. One day, the mother found that the child's mood was not high, but she didn't understand it immediately. Instead, he said to his son, "Mom is tired today and wants to go out for a walk. Will you go with your mother? " The child agreed. When walking, faced with all kinds of herbs, the mother kept asking questions and the children kept explaining them, showing rich and colorful professional knowledge.