1.？ Spend more time with your children.
Children can't grow up without their parents' company. When I say companionship, I don't mean that children do their homework and parents sit next to them, even if they are companionship. Instead, we should actively communicate with children, listen to their voices, enter their lives, enter their hearts and get to know them better. This is true companionship, not simply sitting still.
2.？ Mind should be balanced.
Nowadays, many parents feel anxious. On the one hand, they hope to change their fate through reading, and on the other hand, they are a common anxiety phenomenon in big cities. Many parents' anxiety is usually transmitted to their children in different ways, which will bring great pressure to their growth. Therefore, parents must pay attention to their own mentality and don't pass on their anxiety to their children.
3.？ Learn to manage your emotions.
Parents have paid a lot for their children to swim at the starting line. In this process, many parents don't realize that their emotions will bring bad negative feedback to their children. Even many parents can smile when facing colleagues at work, but when it comes to children, they will keep losing their temper and make a hullabaloo about easily. Although it may be a subconscious behavior, in the long run, it has a great influence on the development of children's personality.
4.？ It is necessary to help children build up a sense of obeying the rules.
Many parents give their children the illusion that they can break the routine as long as they study hard, which is very bad. After all, children have to grow up. When they grow up, they must obey social rules, otherwise they will suffer a lot. I didn't realize it after thinking about it. I think it doesn't matter whether children study well or not. If you look for it again, you must correct this idea in time. For the sake of children's future life, we must establish a sense of obeying the rules for children.