The first word is "pain". Men must love women and meet the psychological needs of women and young women. Women seem to be born to be cared for by men. The word "An" means that Bao Gai gave birth to a woman. Women long for men to be mountains or trees to shelter them from the wind and rain, and she is a naive girl, more beautiful. Isabella Chow said that a mature man can let his beloved woman jump into his arms when he is wronged and cry like a baby. The second word is "good". Be a good son of a wife and meet the psychological needs of women's maternal love. When our mother was white-haired, it was our wife who took over the baton of maternal love, took care of our diet, accepted our shortcomings and regrets, and supported us unconditionally. Be good, don't argue with your wife over trifles, be obedient, behave yourself and don't make trouble. The third word is "Fu". A wife must admire her husband and satisfy his psychological needs. Men seem to be born to be envied by women. The admiration of his wife is the driving force of his husband's progress, inspiring him to become a man with indomitable spirit. According to the survey, Wenzhou's business is doing very well, because Wenzhou's wife worships her husband very much and loves him even if she goes bankrupt. The wound heals and recovers quickly, and she makes a comeback. A wife should listen to her husband, give face in public, and settle accounts at home. The fourth word is jiao. Women must be attractive. Exquisite and delicate flowers make people feel pity, which is suitable for IKEA to arouse men's desire for protection and meet the psychological needs of men's fatherly love. Too rough and strong, making men feel unwanted and don't need help. Lions roar, outbursts of anger and deep-rooted resentment will scare away men. Chen Jiao is the constraint of softness and interest. Isabella Chow said: It's like a lyric saying, "Pat me gently with that whip." If it is heavy, it will be black and blue. The formula of "pain, obedience, obedience and femininity" is complementary to each other, and it is a way for couples to get along with each other with love and appreciation. Cultivate your mind, tidy up your home, and then level the world. Isabella Chow said, "First of all, be a good man, a good woman, a good husband and a good wife. The rest are by-products and incidental. " What seems to be the simplest and most basic thing is far from being done. Reflecting on yourself is mostly because you are arrogant, sensitive and stubborn, and you have not done a good job in women's work, which leads to contradictions and disharmony. Speaking of it, human beings are getting farther and farther away from primitive nature and living more and more tired. Strong self-paranoia, quick success, people often seek the end at the expense of the root cause. Everyone has become a part of the social machine, involuntarily, running at high speed and exhausted. The cruel competition mechanism forces people to avoid the elimination of the weak, keep forging ahead and strive for strength and competitiveness. It has not become an essential quality, but also a potential psychological, work challenges, family crisis, and the tension that permeates the bone marrow, which makes women exhausted. When you need to care most, it is often ignored. The quietness and gentleness of women disappear under the mask of skill and tenacity. When women are arrogant, men are more selfish and don't like taking responsibility. Husband and wife don't trust each other, they can't trust each other, and even the last warmth is gone. Wouldn't it be sad if couples are too busy to pay attention to nourishing each other? What if there is more money? A relaxed, happy, warm and peaceful family atmosphere is conducive to the healthy growth of children's body and mind. Pull yourself out, stop, let complicated thoughts precipitate, calm down, be quiet and wise, be quiet and far-reaching. God's traction makes the confused and ignorant people detached. Fearing God and attaching importance to morality will make us indifferent and firm, clear and peaceful, and make us choose between advance and retreat. In the past, China's wedding ceremony had to worship heaven and earth, parents and husband and wife, which was solemn and profound. Husband and wife live together day and night, and they are intimate. Over time, the glory faded, and the shortcomings of the other party were clear at a glance, from looking up to looking down. Stumbling, undisciplined and bohemian, export hurts people, a vicious circle. Respect is indispensable. Respecting your partner is also respecting yourself. Respect can produce respect, and there are good ideas and possibilities. No wonder in ancient times, respect and obedience were regarded as the greatest courtesy of women. Tender and considerate, tolerant and considerate, diligent and virtuous, are the precious qualities of * * * *, and the world of mortals can't disturb her, so she is calm and keeps her job. The years are brewing, the fragrance is floating, and the voice, face and smile are warm and soft. Make a good foundation, don't forget the foundation, it is the realm, you are as stupid as a fool! Husband and wife need wisdom and good habits to get along. I feel more and more that the ancient teachings of the sages are right, so we should keep them in mind, start from scratch, persevere, get used to nature, and turn them into warm spring breeze and stable power. Yin and yang are in opposition, the five elements are out of balance, and morality is ruined. Filtering out anxiety, vanity and greed and returning to the truth is the only way out. The sage said: "the factor that constitutes a woman is femininity;" A man should be upright ... you are a woman, and you must be as kind and gentle as a woman in order to get men's respect and love. ..... a man must look like a man. "This road is simple and easy, and return to nature. Balance of yin and yang, combining rigidity with softness. " It takes a hundred years to help each other in the same boat, and a thousand years to share a bed. "Knowing how to cherish fate and be kind to your cherished partner is our lifelong homework. 1 15
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2. Where is the course to explain the relationship between husband and wife?
Jiang Zhuoran's class on Jia Fu platform is OK.
3. How does the micro-lesson legendary family education course help the intimate relationship between husband and wife?
People often fall into the trap of love and the shackles of family background unconsciously, and of course they don't know how to get out. Li, his tutor of marriage and family education, summed up a series of questions that should be clear and may affect his marriage relationship, and gave the corresponding answers.
The micro-lesson "Legendary Tutor" is very helpful to the relationship between husband and wife. The course includes rich and solid theoretical explanations, step-by-step in-depth course experience and wonderful psychological theory interpretation. With vivid examples, sincere feelings and simple explanations, lead you and your lover out of the confused heart and regain the sweetness of marriage!
The micro-class legendary tutor couples relationship course is suitable for you who want to completely solve the marital conflict; Marriage has changed, and you want to repair your feelings; The marriage is dull and I want to deepen my feelings; I can't see the lingering pattern clearly, and I don't understand the law of husband-wife relationship.
4. Where can couples get along in Guangdong?
This may not be right. It is recommended to refer to the relevant questions and answers of Master Xuecheng.
1, User: Master, my husband especially doesn't understand me. What should I do? Anything, as long as you follow him, can't be done without him. For example, I am particularly bored at home every day. I want to get a dog, but he won't get one anyway. I feel particularly uncomfortable! Because he didn't understand me, I scratched my wrist and bled.
Master Xuecheng: If you only look at the problem from your own side, you will be opposed everywhere and feel uncomfortable everywhere. Communicating with others means listening to each other's ideas, not persuading them; Being driven by trouble to take a confrontational stance only cuts off the road of communication.
2. Netizen: Master, how can you not be angry when you are angry? In fact, the last thing I want to do is bicker with my husband, but I will bicker whenever something happens, and I will cry in the end. I know this is my business, but how can I not quarrel and get angry?
Master Xuecheng: Most disputes in life are trivial matters. Pisces just won't let go of their opinions.
3. Netizen: Hello, Master Xuecheng! I am in great pain. My lover made a mistake and decided to correct it, but I can't trust him, I want to give him up, and I am afraid that my child will suffer, and I still have feelings for him. But I'm irrational. Since this incident, I have always exposed my scars, and his initial guilt has become irrelevant. I feel that the road is blocked and I can't walk.
Master Xuecheng: People and things are changing, but I look at people and things from the past and live in the shadow of delusion, so I am very painful. Let go of persistence and start over.
4. Netizen: Master Li Ding! A friend of mine quarreled with him because his ex-girlfriend added his qq and finally had to divorce him. The child is ill, and the friend is very wronged and sad. What should a friend do to make his wife believe him and make up with him? Thank you!
Master Xue Cheng: The reason why the contradiction is getting worse is that both sides consider the problem from their own standpoint, which leads to emotionalization, further amplifying the "self" and increasing the difficulty of thinking. In the whirlpool of contradictions, I might as well try to "change myself" and think about it: if I were him.
5. Netizen: Hello, Master Xuecheng! I'm confused, and I want you to give me a hint. I am 26 years old and have been married for a year. I have true love with my wife, but my personality leads us to quarrel frequently, not to mention her various problems. I only care about my own shortcomings, and I want to do it well first. What I want to ask you is: how can I get rid of all kinds of prejudices against her, because these prejudices may be the chief culprit in the quarrel.
Master Xuecheng: Facing a rose, some people are annoyed that there are thorns under the flower, while others are glad that there are thorns on the long flower. Everything has many angles. See which angle is your choice. Get along with others, see each other's advantages, get along more harmoniously and make progress easily.
6. Netizen: Hello, Master! Excuse me, master, how to improve the bad marriage, marital discord and mutual suspicion?
Master Xuecheng: Change yourself, be tolerant and grateful, observe each other's advantages and admire them. "Good people are rewarded; The more people know, the more they miss it. "
7. Netizen: Master of Top Ceremony! I am always unhappy with my lover recently. Because he didn't know how to behave differently before, he often made me misunderstand and get angry. Now I know he wants to change the way of communication, and I believe he is not suspected of having an affair with other members of the opposite sex. Only now when he is dating the opposite sex, I will still doubt him because of what happened before, thus causing the gap between us. What should I do? Ask for enlightenment!
Master Xuecheng: Times have changed, but you look at the present from the past. This is "persistence".
5. How to promote the relationship between husband and wife? Is there such training in the family and marriage course?
Many people fall in love before marriage, but after marriage, they are defeated by the triviality of life, and their shortcomings are exposed. They can't balance work, life and family. I was overwhelmed by the problems brought about by marriage before I began to enjoy it.
So, how can we increase the intimate relationship with our spouse? Summarized the following four points:
1, effective communication;
2. Improve the attractiveness of the body;
3. Leave some space for each other;
4. Have a better sense of humor;
I suggest you know more about marriage and emotion. There are also some courses about family and marriage that you mentioned, such as the "Senior Teacher of Marriage and Adolescence" recently taught by Professor Chen Yijun of China Academy of Social Sciences, which will give you a deeper understanding of the nature of marriage.
6. How do couples get along? It is best to study and grow together.
Yes, it is best for couples to learn to grow together. You can remember the following points:
Communicate with each other
Don't compare your partner with others.
Learn together and grow together.
mutual respect
Spend related festivals together.
7. What courses are there on gender relations?
1 gender roles and gender differences 2 the beginning of the relationship 3 love and get along 4 online romance 5 breakup 6 sexual psychobiology and contraceptive measures 7 sexual harassment and dating * * * The implementation of gay gender equality in life.
8. Excuse me, where are the courses/lectures for couples?
You don't need courses. Every couple is different. You have to find yourself and get along with others. A little more tolerance and understanding between husband and wife is better than anything.
9. Ask for books about getting along with husband and wife!
Hehe, the way for husband and wife to get along is to respect communication and understand tolerance. As long as you really do these things, you don't need to read any books. The book says it's useless to eat too much by yourself. Everyone knows the truth, and whether it can really be done is another matter.