If you want to be a good parent of high school students, my suggestion: the best way is to encourage. Criticism is the biggest enemy of children's self-confidence. Try to emphasize the child's advantages and ignore his shortcomings, and the child's self-confidence will be improved. China parents should learn from American parents. China's parents give priority to criticism, while American parents give priority to praise. Therefore, American children have stronger self-confidence than China children.

Children must be encouraged to make progress and do better. Children who grow up with encouragement are full of confidence and make continuous progress. We should learn to be parents who applaud our children.

Don't rush no matter whether your grades are good or bad. Encourage and trust children to do well, and children will do well. Let children know that it is his responsibility to read good books, not the responsibility of parents. The future and life belong to the children themselves. No matter how much parents love their children, they can't take the place of their children in their lives. Tell him that those who study well and those who don't study well will come to the social hierarchy. Tell him you have 100% confidence in him. If he studies hard, he will get excellent grades. Don't rush him to make his own arrangements. If you especially urge him, just

The children will think that learning is your business. Even if he did it under your supervision, he thought he was studying for you, not for himself. Then once he loses your supervision, he won't study. Can you supervise him for life?

Believe in children, praise them constantly, and often say to them: "

Son, I'm glad to see that you have been studying hard. I hope to make persistent efforts and make further progress. You have great potential. Give full play to it. You're great. "