2. Pay attention to the details of the problem. Some parents like to ask big questions at the beginning, such as how was your day. Children are often speechless because they don't know how to answer, not because they don't want to answer, but because they don't know where to start. Therefore, parents should refine the problem and start with the details of the problem, such as asking what is happy today.
3. Sensitive topics, ask from the side. Some parents think that children have no privacy and talk about everything. As a result, children are unwilling to tell the truth. For sensitive topics, ask from the side. For example, if you want to know whether the teacher is responsible, you can take the children's friends as an example to ask.
4. Put down your posture and chat with an equal attitude. Some parents always like to put on a dignified look of their elders, which makes their children afraid and unwilling to speak their minds. When chatting, you should put down your posture, chat with your children in an equal manner, let them forget the generation gap, let go of their burdens and talk to each other.
5, to find a common language with children, do not habitually deny everything. Some parents think their children are naive and always disagree with their words. When chatting with children, it is also a habitual denial, while overwhelmingly educating children what to do. Children feel that they have no right to speak and choose, and they are gradually reluctant to chat with their parents.
6. Use loving body language properly when chatting, so that children can feel the love of their parents. Parents can use body language appropriately, such as hugging their children, kissing their faces and praising their performance at appropriate times.
Children feel their parents' love in the process of chatting with their parents, and regard the process of chatting with their parents as a matter of love and being loved. Children are more and more willing to talk to their parents about their feelings and solve various problems, and the parent-child relationship will become deeper and deeper, thus achieving effective chat.