Don't be long-winded and reasonable.
After the child is three years old, his self-awareness is gradually strong. Direct criticism may make them feel denied, but they are even more reluctant to listen. Instead of this, it is better to let the children learn to grow up in the attempt and bear the consequences themselves.
Learn to listen instead of talking all the time.
Children have strong self-esteem, and if their parents always blame them, they will feel hurt. Try to get children to say what they think after making mistakes. You just need to say "hmm" once in a while. This power of silence will make children reflect on themselves.
Don't forget to communicate more
Building trust is the foundation of education. Put down your attitude and chat with your children more, and you will find that the distance with your children will get closer and closer, and your children will trust and rely on you more.