Once in a program, Liang Sicheng's second wife was asked, "Do you think Lin is a good wife? Wilma, Lin's good friend, said that she was a good friend, but she was not an ideal housewife. She doesn't seem very good at housework. There are several nannies at home, and the children should be taken care of by nurses. Under the description, Lin seems to be a spoiled girl who hasn't moved her fingers. Lin in the photo, because of her slim and elegant figure, is easy to leave such an impression on people. Perhaps what Zhu Lin described really exists objectively, but the truth outlined in a few words is never the complete truth. Doesn't Lin like doing housework? She really doesn't like it. In her letters to her friends, she complained many times about the trouble of doing housework. Whenever I do housework, I always feel sorry. I have left out some more interesting and important people I have never met. So, I finished my work quickly, so that I could have a heart-to-heart talk with them. If I can't finish my housework and keep adding one new one after another, I'll be bored. So I have always been bad at housework, because my heart is always half around ... "But not liking it doesn't mean I can't do it. Lin is actually good at cooking, and her cooking has been praised many times. My friend wrote in Memorial Forest that she had been a guest in the Lins' home. When Lin was ill, she cooked for them herself and praised her cooking as delicious food. Lin's father also recorded Lin's cooking in his diary. Lin cooked braised bamboo shoots and roast chicken for him. These dishes are not only exquisite but also delicious. Huinv, since the festival, cooked bamboo shoots and red-cooked chicken are quite exquisite. Huinv tried cooking twice, and the effect was good. "If the definition of a good housewife is to concentrate on the family, only care about daily necessities, and only have a husband and children in life, Lin Ziran is not an ideal housewife. But she is not a vase kept at home. She can't do laundry and cook, but she can go to many remote places to protect ancient buildings. It is unconvincing to say that Lin can't take care of children. Perhaps because of her busy work, Lin can't stay with her children all the time, but many things show that she loves her children as much as any mother, and she has not neglected the education of her children. Lin and Liang Sicheng have two children, a daughter and a son, Liang Congjie. Lin, with her child in her arms, is full of maternal brilliance. She is very gentle with her children. When Liang Congjie was born, Lin wrote "You are an April day on earth" for him. This poem is very gentle, because it hides a mother's deep affection for her son. I say you are the April day of this world, and laughter illuminates the winds around you; ..... You are the flower of the tree, the swallow whispering among the beams-you are love, warmth and hope, and you are the April day on the earth! My daughter likes reading novels and buries herself in reading all day. Lin was worried that her daughter was too addicted, but instead of reprimanding or stopping her directly, she drew a cartoon for her. The cartoon reads: "Mommy who encourages you to study is very reluctant to let this respectable kangaroo become a portrayal of your future. If you like reading, you must remember to keep a considerable distance from this cartoon, otherwise … at least, I will never have a son-in-law. "This is really a warm way. I wonder if my daughter was amused or moved by her mother's humor after seeing it. Lin is also a mother who respects her children's ideas. Liang Zaibing once had a cat Mimi who was sick and died. She was very sad. Lin didn't ignore the child's mood, and she didn't think it was childish. Instead, she took the initiative to attend, held a funeral for the cat with the children, and made a small wreath with pine and cypress leaves. Lin and Liang Si Chengdu are architects, and they also want their son to learn architecture. Liang Congjie's grades have been very good, and Lin thought he was determined to be admitted to the Department of Architecture in Tsinghua. But surprisingly, my son missed the exam by a few minutes. Lin can't believe he went to check his test paper, too. She saw that her son answered all the questions well, but the last question was not answered. She wrote in the blank: "I don't like architecture, I like history." Seeing Lin crying, she began to reflect on her previous training methods and blamed herself for ignoring her son's real interest. She decided to respect her son's wishes, and finally Liang Congjie went to the history department of Peking University. Lin is also a good mother who sets an example. After the July 7th Incident, Lin was very angry with Japanese aggression. She wrote a letter to her eight-year-old daughter who was on holiday with her aunt. The tone seems to be talking to an adult, seriously conveying her attitude towards Japan to her daughter. She said: "You know that they have always wanted our' North China' place, and this time they sent troops to attack us for a trivial matter. We hope things will be over without fighting, but if the Japanese want to occupy Peiping, we are all willing to fight. In order to be more vivid and help her daughter understand, she drew a map for her daughter. My son once asked Lin what to do if the Japanese really called. Lin's answer is, "China students always have a way out. Isn't the Yangtze River at our doorstep? " "I believe this must have left a deep impression on my son, and having such a mother is something to be proud of. Whether a good mother and child have more say. In the eyes of a daughter, a mother is a mother, a teacher and a friend. In the article My Mother Lin, she wrote: "My mother is an unusual mother ... She is my first teacher ... The spiritual wealth she left me with her cultural accomplishment and knowledge is far richer and more lasting than that left by any other teacher; She is my friend, my earliest and most special friend. Compared with other friends, she is a friend who can give more support, inspiration and encouragement ... "Liang Congjie's memory of her mother is more about the way her mother washed clothes with her hair hanging freely. For him, Lin is his favorite mother, not a goddess and talented woman in the eyes of outsiders. Liang Zaibing and Liang Congjie both graduated from Peking University in the end. Liang Zaibing became a journalist and worked as a reporter for Xinhua News Agency for many years. Liang Congjie is committed to environmental protection and is the founder of "Friends of Nature", and has made great achievements in this field. How can there be a good mother behind such an excellent child?