First, the problems in modern family education
1, overprotected
Some parents worry too much about their children's safety and happiness, keep them away from society and give them the opportunity to solve problems independently, which leads to their lack of self-confidence and autonomy and dare not face challenges and difficulties.
2. Corruption
Some parents spoil their children too much, meet all their requirements, and do not set reasonable rules and restrictions for their children, which leads to their selfishness, willfulness, ingratitude and disrespect for others and society.
3. Lack of communication
Some parents neglect communication and interaction with their children, don't understand their thoughts and feelings, and don't give them space and opportunities to express themselves, which leads to their introversion, loneliness, insecurity and unwillingness to share their thoughts with their parents.
4. High voltage control
Some parents are too strict and harsh, interfere and supervise their children's study and life too much, and force their children to act according to their own wishes, regardless of their interests and specialties, which leads to their depression, rebellion and anxiety, and they dare not pursue their dreams.
Second, it has a negative impact on the physical and mental development of teenagers.
1, inferiority complex
Excessive protection and high-pressure control will make children feel incompetent, useless and worthless, lacking self-identification and self-affirmation.
Step 2 rely on
Excessive protection and doting will make children accustomed to relying on others and lack the ability to think independently and live independently.
3. negative
High-pressure control and lack of communication will make children rebellious and disobey their parents' guidance and management.
4. Anxiety
High-pressure management and lack of communication will put children under too much pressure and expectation and worry that they will not meet their parents' requirements and standards.
Third, parents should take some effective countermeasures.
1, respect children's personality and choices.
Parents should realize that every child is a unique individual with his own interests, strengths, strengths and weaknesses. Parents should respect their children's preferences and wishes and encourage them to develop their potential and characteristics.
2. Establish a good parent-child relationship.
Parents should spend more time and energy to communicate and interact with their children, understand their psychology and emotions, and erect ears for their children to listen and understand. Parents should treat their children with love and trust and give them a warm and safe family atmosphere.
3. Give appropriate guidance and support.
Parents should give their children appropriate freedom and space according to their age and maturity, let them explore and try and solve problems and contradictions by themselves. Parents should encourage and help their children when they encounter difficulties and setbacks, and let them feel the support and companionship of their parents.
Definition, Purpose, Principles and Methods of Family Education
1. Definition and purpose of family education
Family education refers to parents' educational activities for their children, including guidance, cultivation and influence on their life, study, behavior and morality.
The purpose of family education is to help children form a correct outlook on life, values and world outlook, cultivate their moral, intellectual, physical and emotional qualities, and make them become responsible, capable and contributing social citizens.
2. Principles and methods of family education
Family education should follow the following principles: people-oriented, respect children's dominant position; Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude to adapt to children's personality differences; Step by step, in line with the law of children's development; Interact and cooperate to establish a good parent-child relationship; Overall coordination and cooperation with school education.
Family education should adopt the following methods: demonstration and guidance, setting an example; Lead by example and convince others by reasoning; Enlighten, ask questions and answer; Encourage guidance and replace punishment with praise; Participate in guidance and show affection to people.