After more than ten years of teaching experience and knowledge, I deeply understand the great role of education in a person's development: it can make a person or bury a person. We often hope that every child around us is healthy, lively and positive, but unfortunately, although children praise and comfort everyone as a whole, it is inevitable that some people fall behind in their habits. Obviously, this is an unchangeable fact. Observing each group carefully, it is not difficult to find that the differences between children are always difficult to eliminate. In fact, it is foolish to try to eliminate this difference. Our teacher hopes that every child can get a good development, so we implement a fair education in the classroom and receive the same education in the kindergarten. Why is there such a big difference between children? Since school education is difficult to widen the gap between children, we have to find another reason: apart from school education, what causes the gap between children? After careful observation, it is not difficult to find that each child lives in a different family environment and receives different family education. Parents' ideas and behaviors determine their development potential. We can't expand the role of family education indefinitely, but at least we can't ignore it! I have taken over countless new small classes and learned more about the children in the new small classes. My observation shows that children are not at a starting line from the moment they step into kindergarten. There are two children in the class who left a deep impression on themselves: one child's seat is in the front, his whole body is facing left, and his hands are constantly swinging, just like cartilage. I asked him to sit facing the teacher, but he didn't agree. He just smiled at me and said slowly, "That's how I sit at home." Another child was sitting cross-legged in the chair behind, sucking his fingers. I think my education is facing another new challenge. In fact, in this year's education, more energy has been paid to these two children, but their performance is difficult to meet their expectations. In other words, their development achievements are far from my efforts on them. I always believe in the great role of education. But this result forced me to rethink education. Where is the starting point of education? During the May Day holiday, I began to read some books on early family education. Among them, after reading Jin Huimei's book You are Great, My Child, I have a further understanding of the role of encouragement and the significance of early family education. 1. Parents decide their children's future. I often hear many parents say, "Alas! Children nowadays are really difficult to serve. Unlike before, mom and dad asked us to go east, and we dare not go west! " Yes, times have changed. Compared with us at that time, children now are really different! Playing the piano, but since I began to teach her to play scales over and over again, she is no longer willing to take the initiative to play the piano; She used to like coloring in picture books. When I found many places underlined, I asked her to be more careful, but she couldn't write. My dissatisfaction and pressure