Recently, I have a lot of feelings about children's education because of their parents' meeting. Parents have ardent hopes for their children's success and are exhausted for their children's study and education.

Almost all parents want their children to get a good education and have a decent job in the future, at least to support themselves.

Therefore, parents try their best to educate their children at all stages. In prenatal education, kindergartens, primary schools, junior high schools and high schools, many parents blindly follow the trend and spend a lot of money on education for fear that their children will lose at the starting line or take detours.

It is natural to attach importance to children's education. It's just that some parents are caught in a strange circle, for example, three generations of grandparents and grandchildren don't toss and turn, which is not enough to prove the importance attached to education.

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Xiao Li's child in the unit has just entered the first grade of primary school. Xiao Li and her lover have been separated for a long time due to their work relationship. Xiao Li is in A City, Hebei Province, and his lover is in B City, Shanxi Province, 200 kilometers away. The child lived in City A with Xiao Li since childhood and was looked after by her grandmother.

It stands to reason that the academic level of primary schools is not difficult, and the learning pressure is not great. Children should be allowed to enter school nearby and start learning in a relaxed and happy environment.

Can come to school, Xiao Li discussed with his lover, but sent the child to the city of B where his lover is located. When the lover is busy at work, grandparents will take care of the children.

This thing, it sounds awkward. The child has just arrived in a strange environment, and everything is not suitable. He is separated from his mother who has been with him all the time and is unhappy all day. When talking to Xiao Li on the phone, it is inevitable that she will cry, which makes Xiao Li fidgety and go to see the children in B city whenever she has time. A city and B city are running around, and they are exhausted after half a year.

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In another case, parents leave their children's education entirely to schools and teachers.

In Hebei province, the educational model in Hengshui area is famous for its strict management. Hengshui under this management mode has made outstanding achievements in the college entrance examination for many years, which has also attracted many foreign students and parents.

Even some parents think that as long as they send their children to Hengshui, even if they get a good education, they will have no regrets no matter what university they are admitted to.

Colleague Jamlom's child will go to junior high school this year. In a small talk, Jamlom said that he would send his children to school in Hengshui. He said that children's academic performance is not good, and parents can do nothing about it. It is better to entrust it to the school management as soon as possible.

Although they are all in Hebei province, they are more than 400 kilometers away from Hengshui. J. A 12-year-old child, far from his parents' hometown, went to live in a junior high school in other places. It's not that he can't, he just doesn't think it's necessary. Moreover, children have a rest every two weeks, and parents have to go all the way to see their children, which is time-consuming, laborious and expensive.

In junior high school, it is very important to cultivate study habits. However, in the process of children's growth and learning, parents' companionship and guidance are equally important, and the heavy responsibility of educating children cannot be completely pushed to teachers. Junior high school students have poor ability to live independently, so taking care of themselves will inevitably affect their health.

A competent teacher will be patient with his students. But there are at least 60 students in the class, and it is impossible for the teacher to guide the education of each student. Many times, students' obedience is forced under the strict management of the school, rather than the real recognition from the heart.

Many parents complain that adolescent children are rebellious and have nothing to say with their parents at home. In fact, this is a problem in communication with children. Parents leave their children's education entirely to the school. After a long time, children will mistakenly think that their parents are indifferent to themselves and are unwilling to communicate with their parents.

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There is another situation, that is, college entrance examination immigrants. Some parents see that the college entrance examination in a municipality directly under the central government can make their own propositions, the number of college entrance examinations is small, or the admission scores in some areas are low, so they try their best to let their children immigrate to the college entrance examination in order to enjoy the advantages of the college entrance examination in some areas.

In our unit, a large number of parents use housing or points to settle down, transfer their children to Tianjin to attend high school, and finally take the college entrance examination in Tianjin. I hope that children can be admitted to a good university in a relatively relaxed and less competitive environment.

Because they are working-class, their children have moved to Tianjin to go to school, and their parents have to work in their original posts to make money, so there is a problem of being too busy to accompany and monitor their children. At this time, I was used to grandparents taking care of children.

There is no problem for the elderly to take care of their children's daily life, but they should ask questions to supervise their study. There is no adolescent who is not fun.

High school students should study hard, and this arrangement of parents allows children to choose a more comfortable learning lifestyle at an age when they should be suffering. "Without a little chill, how can plum blossoms smell sweet?" As a result, the results of college entrance examination are not satisfactory, which will not play a positive role in children's future study and growth.

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Ye Shengtao, a famous educator, said: The purpose of education is to cultivate habits. To cultivate children's good habits, we should start from childhood and start from the little things in life.

Parents are the first people that children come into contact with, and they also have the greatest influence on their living habits. Therefore, parents' words and deeds play a vital role in the formation of children's habits.

Children are the only ones in the eyes of parents, but they are one-tenth of the teachers' many students. Even if a teacher is very conscientious, his time and energy are limited, and it is even more impossible to devote all his energy to a child.

Many times, parents need to pay more attention to the aspects that teachers can't take care of, and accompany and guide their children more. Let children understand right and wrong and form a correct cognition.

In addition, the companionship of parents and the warmth of family also help children to form a sunny and cheerful personality, and they are not timid when they meet people.

Time flies, children learn English from babbling to 18 years old. Not counting them, ten years have passed. This period is also a crucial period for parents to influence their children's education.

Following the fundamentals of education, we should not only look up at the starry sky, but also look down on the ground. It is wise to let children understand the truth of dealing with people while learning cultural knowledge, do their best, do what they can, and accompany them to grow up together.