Parents not only create pampered living conditions for their children, but also provide them with a living atmosphere of stars holding the moon. As long as the children live well, parents are willing to work hard and ask for nothing in return, so that the parent-child emotion that should have been a two-way interaction has become a "unilateral action" for parents to show selfless care for their children. The overindulgence of parents has numbed many children's love for their elders; Children are too dependent on their parents, which makes them lose the ability to live independently. Nowadays, many children don't understand their parents' hard work and squander their parents' hard-earned money at will, forming a bad habit of exclusion and arrogance. Parents' doting makes them become an "indifferent generation" who don't know how to appreciate, don't want to appreciate and won't be moved.

2. School education has become a tool for further study and employment.

Over the years, our education has paid more attention to the enrollment rate and employment rate, and teaching achievement has become the only pursuit of the school, even dominating its survival and development. Some colleges and universities pay too much attention to the utility of education and ignore the educational function of education. Students are selfish, lack of self-cultivation and apathetic, which is related to the inadequate implementation of moral education in colleges and universities, especially the neglect of gratitude education.

3. Social education becomes a tool of desire and utility.

Nowadays, with the increase of various negative influences in society and the deterioration of social atmosphere, people who have contributed to society can't get due respect and return, which has brought many negative effects to children at the beginning of life.

The basic idea of gratitude education

Gratitude is a philosophy of life and great wisdom of life. Gratitude is the virtue of China people. Knowing how to be grateful is a person's minimum moral quality, and knowing how to be grateful is also the minimum conscious requirement of knowing truth, goodness and beauty and distinguishing right from wrong. Gratitude is not only an emotion, but also a reflection of the realm of life. Only by being grateful can we get greater emotional returns from all aspects. Thanksgiving education is an important basis for cultivating children's sense of responsibility. Only those who know how to be grateful will know how to pay. With gratitude, they will feel that they have the responsibility to repay the society and be responsible for what they have done. Gratitude consciousness is not only a reward for parents' upbringing, but also a sense of responsibility and self-reliance; Gratitude is not only a virtue, but also a basic condition for a person to be a man!

The Essence of Thanksgiving Education

Thanksgiving education is a kind of love education and emotional intelligence education full of human feelings and vitality. It inherits the essence of China's traditional cultural elements and integrates the factors of western gratitude education. Thanksgiving education is everywhere. Filial piety is the forerunner of gratitude education. In the family, parents should be grateful to their children, and children should also be grateful to their parents; The younger generation should be grateful to the elders, and the elders should also be grateful to the younger generation; A wife should be grateful to her husband, and so should her husband. Building a harmonious family needs gratitude education. In enterprise development, the boss should be grateful to the employees, and the employees should also be grateful to the boss. Harmonious corporate culture needs gratitude education. Thanksgiving education is also an important part of school moral education and a part of a harmonious society.