Usually, female stars always seem to be on top, but having children makes them fall back to earth. They talk about their children just like ordinary people. And the experience they summed up in the process of parenting can also be used for reference by ordinary people. Because the relationship between children and mothers will never have anything to do with fame and fortune.
I am a spoiled mother. Yi Nengjing talked about his son's happy face.
Yi Nengjing, a singer, movie star and talented woman writer, talked happily about her son and her parenting experience. Yi Nengjing looks much more mature than before, but when it comes to her lovely son, her happy smile is like a lovely little girl, just as she said, "I am a very spoiled mother".
Children are more important than career.
After giving birth to her son Harlem Jr, Yi Nengjing not only published a new book, but also her TV series "Painting the Soul" became an instant hit, which made her career in "Going Up a storey still higher" a double harvest for her family and career. How does she balance family and career? Yi Nengjing admits that although the two are contradictory, she has her own opinion: "It is very hard to balance the relationship between family and career, but since you promise to have a life, you should be responsible and leave more time for your family. Family always comes first, so my workload is very small now, but I will choose carefully and don't want to waste my little time. When I was filming, I thought that since I sacrificed being with my children, I still remember that when I was filming "Painting the Soul", little Harlem couldn't walk, but he could walk after the filming. I'm sad that I didn't see my child learn to walk with my own eyes. So I think no matter how busy I am at work, I should take time out to accompany my children. "
As a clever mother, Yang Lan: The most important thing is a complete personality.
In Yang Lan's view, as a mother, the biggest task is to cultivate children's healthy personality and way of thinking. Chinese and math can be taught by teachers, but how to face setbacks, how to face jealousy, and how to integrate into a strange environment all need his mother to teach him. Physical and mental health is the lowest and the most critical. It is very important for a child to communicate with others without obstacles and handle everything with a cheerful and lively attitude. This kind of character cultivation is very important to his life.
Yang Lan once said, "My son likes painting, drawing cartoons and so on. During the break, the children will line up for him to draw. I told him, can you send me some? What is hanging in my office now is my child's painting. I think this is not only a respect for children, but also a guide to encourage him to think creatively. "
According to some data, some time ago, Yang Lan's children moved from Shanghai to Beijing. At first, he was very unhappy. He always complains that he can't see the teachers and classmates in Shanghai when he arrives in Beijing. At first, Yang Lan thought it would be good to tell her children to make some new friends and get used to it. Later, Yang Lan read a book on psychology to teach mothers how to educate their children in different situations of life. One part is about movement. The book says that moving is not a particularly big thing in adults' minds, but it is a big thing in children's small minds. Because he came to a brand-new environment, other students became friends, and he was a stranger and had to face many choices. The book says that parents should never comfort their children with a new circle of friends at this time, which will make him feel betrayed and guilty. He will feel that if he makes new friends, he can forget his old friends. You must talk to him and help him keep in touch with his old friends. Later, Yang Lan took the initiative to help him collect the contact information of his classmates and teachers in Shanghai, and suggested that he call these old friends every once in a while and meet them again when he returned to Shanghai.
Yang Lan said that the image of "smart mother" in her mind, "first of all, we must know how to raise children scientifically, and secondly, let children have a balanced mentality, know how to communicate with others, and be confident and independent. It is very important to give children a loving environment, and a loving and caring family is extremely important for their growth. "
Jing Li brought her daughter videos and even went on a business trip together.
A few days ago, Li Jing appeared in the column of Pretty Woman with her daughter Huang Muer, who is less than three years old. Moore's lovely appearance touched many audiences. When the reporter interviewed Li Jing, she talked about her "daughter classics".
Speaking of her daughter's appearance, Li Jing said that this is not the first time Muer came to the set. I often follow her to companies, videos and even business trips.
"I am very good with her. I often take her with me when I go out." Li Jing said. Now, Xiao Muer is also very familiar with the environment of the video studio, and has begun to take the initiative to hold a reminder board for her mother to help her work.
Li Jing, who hosts four weekly programs and one daily program at the same time, has adjusted her working hours for her daughter. No work will be arranged in the morning. At noon, I will have lunch with my husband Huang Xiaomao and my daughter Moore. Muir takes a nap before going to work. If there is no activity at night, take your daughter to the amusement park, play with her and go crazy together.
On weekends, Li Jing will also take her daughter to participate in parent-child activities. Usually, she also invites friends such as Ma Yanli to play games with her children. "Climb on the ground with her and play together." Li Jing said.
As for her daughter's future, Li Jing didn't make any setting: "I especially hope that the child can develop freely, so now she doesn't learn anything but play. I only hope that she will become a particularly kind and lovely person in the future. I think this is enough. "
Alyssa Chia: I found the subtext of my daughter.
Alyssa Chia's daughter is two and a half years old now. According to her, "My daughter has her own opinions. The rebellious period comes early-the more you ask her to do something, the less she wants to do it. She always said,' If I don't, I won't, I won't!' My daughter will still be angry with Alyssa Chia and say to her, "I don't love my mother, I don't want you!" " ! "Many mothers will be sad because of this, but Alyssa Chia won't. She is very strategic and always answers her daughter, "It doesn't matter, I know, you say you don't want your mother, you say you don't love your mother, you love your mother ..." until your daughter gets dizzy.
Alyssa Chia knows very well that when a child loses his temper, he actually wants to get her attention. "She knows that saying that can hurt me, but I want to tell her that she can't hurt me because I know that she loves me very much."
Wu Junru: Go to kindergarten with my daughter.
The daughters of Wu Junru and Chen Kexin are only 1 year old. Generally speaking, children of this age are still tired of being with adults, but Wu Junru is willing to send her to an international kindergarten. The tuition fee is as high as 654.38+10,000 yuan per year. Kindergarten advocates that parents and children attend classes together, because this can not only exercise children's ability to communicate with others, but also allow adults and children to practice English and Mandarin together and cultivate children's language talent.
Wu Junru admits that this childish class with children "sometimes feels boring". But she still insisted on going, "because she and her daughter are very happy in class together, and I am very happy."
Hollywood star mom: spend less money and care more about children
Julia Roberts: Choose a reasonable price for children's products.
Julia Roberts is the highest paid actress in Hollywood. She can earn $20 million for a movie. She tried her best to finally give birth to twins, but she was very stingy in raising children. She only goes to several cheap department stores at home to buy baby products, unlike other stars who don't need famous brands. Julia always smiles when she talks about a pair of children. She revealed: "The place I usually stay is not the bedroom, but the kitchen, where I help the children get food. This is my happiest time. "
Gwyneth paltrow: A healthy diet is the most important thing.
Gwyneth Paltrow, the Oscar-winning actress, held her baby daughter "Apple" all day and never wanted to leave. She said, "Apple has completely changed my life. She is everything to me now! " "Gwyneth takes good care of her daughter. For the sake of health, Gwyneth always adopts "naturalism". At her daughter's birthday party, she prepared vegetarian cakes and decaffeinated coffee for the guests.
Gwyneth, who loves her daughter, even dispatched satellite monitoring equipment earlier to observe her every move at any time. The funny thing is that this blonde really takes this mountaineering bag with her every time she goes out. It has a satellite phone and a screen, just like a computer. With it, Gwyneth can see her daughter at any time, and once her daughter is in an abnormal situation, she will know immediately.
Besides, Gwyneth has a serious cleanliness addiction. After becoming a mother, her cleanliness is even more extreme-no one can touch her baby daughter unless she washes her hands with special disinfectant soap first. Gwyneth's love for her daughter is very famous in the circle, and now she is pregnant with a second child. It seems that this mother is getting busy. (Source: Pacific Parent-child Network)