Do your own thing.
No one can always accompany themselves, even parents, who want to adapt to society faster and take better care of themselves. You must learn to take care of yourself. Parents always think that children are still young, and many things need their help to be completed, but in fact, children's abilities are always beyond our imagination. Letting go properly can really help children grow up.
Participate in housework
As long as you study hard, you don't have to do anything else. What could you do when you were a child? Stay away. ? In life, parents often work hard to clean up, while children sit watching TV and playing with toys. You know, children are also members of the family, and housework is something they have to bear. Only by forming the habit of doing housework can children grow up without being sloppy and lazy.
Good work and rest
With the change of lifestyle and the rise of various emerging industries, parents always stay up late and get up late for various reasons, which leads to the situation that black and white are reversed for their children. They don't sleep at night and don't wake up during the day, but they don't know that irregular sleep habits are hurting their health. In addition, not having good sleep habits means that children's self-control ability is poor. Only children who grow up in a regular life can do things with planning and patience.
Admitting a mistake is half corrected; Correct mistakes as soon as you know them.
As children, they are ignorant of many times and things, so they always make mistakes. This is their own growth law. Parents should know that making mistakes is not terrible. The terrible thing is not to repent after making mistakes. Of course, it is difficult to ask them not to make the same mistake twice. The key point is to cultivate their habit of introspection and learn to reflect on their words and deeds.
Do things without delay
We have known since childhood that what we do today is done today, but many people fail to form such a habit. Instead? Procrastination? As long as it's not the last moment, I still have time to play with my mobile phone. Once an emergency happens, there is not enough time to deal with it, so that nothing is done in the end. Doing things without procrastination is not only to cultivate children's habits, but also to help children develop a calm mind.
Know how to give up
Many things in life don't come with our wishes. If you want to take a comfortable taxi, you have to give up a delicious dinner If you want to enter a more promising company, you have to give up the opportunity of promotion and salary increase. At this time, choice becomes the key. Cultivate a sense of willingness from an early age, and you will have clearer goals in your future life choices, and the greater your chances of success.
Dare to try
The road to success is uncertain. In the face of uncertainties, taking risks is the most precious spirit. Parents should let their children grow up in a loving environment. Only by feeling the trust of parents can children dare to try and take risks. The fundamental purpose of doing this is to cultivate children's spirit of daring to take responsibility and their ability to think independently.
Control emotion
We often say that children are simple and cry whenever they want, smile happily, but in fact, controlling emotions is the real ability. We allow children to vent their negative emotions, but we should also help them develop the habit of regulating their emotions.
As Ba Jin said: The successful education of children begins with the cultivation of good habits. Parents should know that good habits are the most favorable weapon for children's growth. Use these? Extra points? Children will be better and step by step towards the most brilliant life.