What are the misunderstandings of junior high school parents in educating their children? For children, they are the most important people.
Relatives are indeed the most important people to children, but after children enter junior high school, they will gradually make friends with other important people in their lives. These people spend the longest time with their children every day in these three years, while parents only spend the time with their children when they do their homework at night.
This will lead to junior high school children and classmates getting closer and closer. When they have secrets or are unhappy, they always share these things with their friends at the first time.
The opposite sex equals puppy love
But junior high school children feel puppy love when they are surrounded by the opposite sex. In fact, this is often the reason for children's puppy love. It is very normal for children to associate with the opposite sex. The opposite sex attracts each other. This is a well-known truth.
If parents object to them having heterosexual friends at this time, it will make them rebellious. So at this time, parents should look at this problem with a normal heart. Parents should not interfere too much when children just make friends.
Common problems of junior high school students are tired of learning.
Junior high school is a critical period for children's learning, and it is also an important stage of learning differentiation and transformation. Some students didn't keep up with their classmates and fell behind. The more they learn, the less confident they are. When they see learning, they have a headache. Some students began to play truant, which made the situation worse. Parents are in a hurry, and they report to class to tutor their children, only to find that even after tutoring, their children have not grown up and even hate learning more. They even began to drop out of school with their parents, unwilling to go to school.
Emotional uncertainty
At this point, some junior high school students seem to have suddenly changed into a different person, with fluctuating emotions, beaming when they are happy, and crying when they are unhappy. Some parents think that their children are sick, which is actually a psychological reflection of their children's physiological changes. At this time, their self-awareness began to grow, they paid special attention to the external evaluation of themselves, and often clashed with other classmates or parents to defend their dignity.
How do parents educate junior high school children not to care too much about grades?
In junior high school, parents should not only pay attention to their grades, but also pay attention to their children's hearts and encourage them from the side, which is better than verbal pressure.
Respect the child's personality
How parents treat their children is an important factor in their mental health development. Some parents are too strict with their children, reprimanding them everywhere, dominating their activities and letting them do whatever they say. On the surface, the children educated in this way are educated, but because their independent personality is not respected, they often show self-restraint and self-distrust.
Learn to listen.
There is always a generation gap between parents and children. From junior high school to senior high school, children are prone to rebellious psychology. Children begin to have the ability to think independently, and also receive a lot of information from various media, and have their own opinions, but they are often too self-righteous. At this time, parents should encourage their children to express their opinions, and do not blindly suppress or oppose them.