What classic educational stories give us higher educational enlightenment and become more educated parents? Nowadays, many parents have a headache: some children don't listen to anything, and some have been taught how to behave many times, but the children can't remember it. Even if there is, it may not be followed, and the actual effect of education will be affected. However, we also see another situation: some children can remember for a lifetime because of the education of their parents or teachers, and then change their lives. This still depends on their education methods. There is no doubt that better educational methods can play its great role.

I am here to share with you three very classic educational stories, each of which is worth thinking about and gives you more advanced educational enlightenment. The result of this is to change the parents' educational methods, and children can also benefit from this change in educational methods. The first story-Mr Zhang Boling quit smoking and drinking. Mr Zhang Boling is a famous educator in China. He founded Nankai University, a famous university. Once at school, he found that a student's fingers were smoked yellow because of long-term smoking, so he seriously advised the student: "Smoking is harmful to health, get rid of it."

Unexpectedly, the student asked disapprovingly, "So it's no harm for you to smoke?" Facing the students' rhetorical questions, Zhang Boling smiled apologetically, and immediately asked everyone to take out every cigarette on their bodies, destroy it in public, and break the pot stem of their beloved cigarette bag that has been used for many years, and sincerely said to everyone, "From now on, I will quit smoking and drinking with all my classmates!"

Sure enough, he never smoked again after that. The headmaster sets an example to guide those students who love smoking better and more correctly. Many students were deeply attracted by Zhang Boling's personal charm and gave up the bad habit of smoking. This story gives parents two educational revelations: the first educational revelation is that example is better than words.

In fact, "example speaks louder than words" is the true meaning of life, but it is easily overlooked by many parents. However, this is often one of the reasons why children do not change their mistakes. For example, parents require their children to play less mobile phones and read more books, but they still play mobile phones all day long in front of their children; Parents themselves don't like sports, but they stipulate that their children insist on physical exercise. This kind of education must be unsatisfactory, and children will not do what their parents think. The best way to solve the problem is for parents to set a good example for their children!

The second educational revelation is that good personal charm of adults can impress children. In this story, it is not only Zhang Boling's example that hurts students, but also Zhang Boling's decisive and resolute personal charm. He responded to students' questions without delay, and immediately publicly destroyed tobacco and broke the pot of tobacco bags. According to his persuasion and education, he fully conveyed his determination and concept of quitting smoking and drinking to students.

When we expect children to have some excellent characters, it is best for everyone to have such excellent characters, or at least show our determination and behavior in front of children to work hard for such excellent characters. This is far more effective than teaching our children many times.