1. Family education is lifelong.

Family education is lifelong. From birth to marriage, there is family education everywhere. Even after children grow up, family education still plays a role. The lifelong nature of family education can help parents to constantly observe the advantages and disadvantages of their children and educate them in time. In the long run, it will help to cultivate children's good personality charm.

2. The process of family interaction

Regarding education, most parents think that it is a school matter, and they don't pay enough attention to family education, which leads to the lack of an important link in the process of children's growth. Family is a dynamic system, and family members interact with each other. Everyone living in the family is doomed to be affected, and everyone in the family should make efforts for the family. It is precisely because of the dynamic nature of the family system and the interaction between family members that each of us can't stay out of it.

It plays the role of children's initial enlightenment.

The most prominent feature of family education is enlightenment. There is a saying that parents are children's first teachers. The personality habits developed by children are closely related to the family environment, and the quality of the family environment will even affect the child's life. Family education plays a fixed role in children's physical and mental development. Are there any lines in the movie Baby Project? Looking at life at the age of three? That's the truth. It is from the family that children first establish their own vague world outlook and values. When accepting new values, they always compare them with their already formed concepts, and selectively accept and contrast them, thus establishing new values, which can be vividly called thoughts? Filter? .

Compared with social education and school education, family education has its benign side, but it also has inevitable defects, mainly manifested in fragmentation and randomness. It is not excluded that some parents have not fulfilled their responsibilities and obligations, which has an indelible negative impact on their children. There are still many problems in contemporary family education.

Second, the problems in family education

1.？ Only schools are teaching?

In today's society, family education is making a serious mistake of the times: many parents regard school education as the only standard and template of education, actively imitate, cater to and please the school education model, abandon the unique attributes and functions of family education, and fail to educate their children according to the special laws of family education itself, so that family education is actually hollowed out and overhead. School education and family education, which have their own missions and responsibilities, have received double expectations, inputs and burdens, while the latter has been seriously weakened and lost its due responsibilities. On the one hand, to some extent? Overeducated? On the other hand, to some extent? Educational negligence? .

2. A preliminary study of family education theory

With the deepening of social reform, the standard requirements for talents are getting higher and higher, and improving the quality of family education has become the requirement of the times. However, due to the long history of feudalism in China and the deep influence of traditional ideas, the research on how to adapt to the rapid development of modern social situation is not timely and in-depth, and there are many blind spots and misunderstandings in the field of education, which need to be studied and solved urgently. Among them, the theoretical research of family education is even weaker. Many problems in family education have become the common concern of the whole society, but due to the weak theoretical construction of family education itself, there are few advanced theoretical studies and insufficient professional researchers. The current educational reform calls for theory, and family education should also meet the needs of development, reverse the weak theoretical research as soon as possible, promote the development of family education discipline to keep up with the times, and form a relatively perfect theoretical system as soon as possible.

3. Parents are prone to blind education

According to the famous? Three vats? Family is a person's first dye vat, and family education determines a person's background color. That is, the color of the family determines the background color of the child. The color of the home is black, and the background color of the child is black. The color of home is red, and the background color of children is red. Therefore, a good family education is as powerful as a nuclear weapon, and it can completely achieve a child.

Third, how to carry out quality family education.

Parents lead by example.

Parents must be confident and self-reliant. Children's self-confidence mainly comes from their parents, not only from their daily evaluation of their children, but also from the influence of their daily behavior. Parents' efforts, diligence, humility, kindness, justice and democracy have taught their children a self-confident and self-reliant family education. If parents' own energy is very strong, they will pass it on to their children through their own actions and efforts.

2. Don't be condescending

Parents always think that they have crossed more bridges than their children, despise their children, and always think that they are right and dominate their children. This kind? High above? Children are hard to convince by their discipline. Especially when criticizing children's mistakes, parents' condescending reprimand makes children feel unequal and difficult to balance. ? Verbal dissatisfaction? The result can only be half the effort.

3. Pay more attention to children.

Children long for warmth and fear loneliness. Cold words make children feel no love, and children feel no concern and love from their parents, which easily leads to autism and loneliness. For example:? Can't you see I'm busy? 、? I'm busy. Leave me alone, okay? Don't say such things to children. As parents, we should always know what we can and can't say to our children. This helps our children to establish a correct outlook on life and a sound mind, and also contributes to the harmonious development of family atmosphere and the healthy growth of children.