Since ancient times, China has followed the order of the young and the old, which makes many parents think that the older should be given to the younger.

Parents' statements will make the boss feel that love is unbalanced, and the boss will obviously feel that parents' love is tilted slightly, which often makes the boss feel that he has no sense of value and existence. If parents don't realize this, they will blame the boss for ignorance and the parent-child relationship will be greatly hurt.

Personally, I think that what should be taken care of more than humility and sharing is the inner feelings of children. We should cultivate children's empathy and try to make a bowl of water flat, so that even the younger second child will not be too selfish.

Educational misunderstanding

Few people have considered this problem from the perspective of an older child. He didn't want to be bound by the person he wanted to let go from the beginning. He also wants someone to let him go and have a younger brother and sister. In this way, he is no longer always the child who has to give in.

In my opinion, some parents' actions are completely unnecessary, and sometimes even hurt their children. From an early age, he should instill less things that he takes for granted. In fact, he can understand some things as an older child. You have taught him some things, but you have taught another.