Basic principles of busy parents
Try not to bring work home.
Working overtime at night will sacrifice time with children, not only miss the best period of family education, but also alienate parent-child relationship.
If you can't accompany your child on his favorite weekend, the child may feel that his mother and father don't love him, which leads to problems such as lack of security and low self-worth.
Teach children by example.
Many times we set an example, which is much more useful than preaching blindly. And this will not neglect the education of children because of busy work. The concept of family teaching blindness is unified.
Of course, the educational concepts of the two generations will not be completely consistent, but at least they should not conflict. Only by maintaining clever communication between family members can we better help children grow up. When children are still under the covers, you can gently wake them up with smiles and kisses.
Let children start a new day by being loved.
Get up quickly and easily, don't set an example for children to stay in bed. Praise children for their good habit of getting dressed in advance for the next day. After getting up, take them to do some warm-up exercises to refresh themselves quickly.
When cooking breakfast, let the child participate and let him do something within his power.
Such as hot milk, setting dishes and chopsticks.
Arrange clothes for each other and check makeup.
Give each other a loving hug before going out and encourage children to spend some time after work.
Adjust your emotions before entering the house.
Ask your child interesting things today, listen and respond positively to her sharing meaningful or happy things at work with her children. The dining table is a place to eat, not to criticize children.
When you are with your family, try to set your mobile phone to vibrate.
Let the children keep a regular schedule, and the whole family will try their best to get ready for bed.
Check what the child will bring the next day, such as schoolbags, stationery and clothes, simply evaluate the child's performance in one day, encourage good performance, remind the child to correct bad performance and create more parent-child time.
Doing sports with children can not only strengthen the body, but also bring the parent-child relationship closer.
Ball games, running and swimming are all good choices. When children watch TV, make an appointment and try to participate.
Set a time for parents and children to read together, and the whole family to read excellent books and discuss together. When children grow up, they can regularly share their recently read books with each other and play family parent-child games together, which can enhance their feelings.
On the premise of ensuring safety, do some small experiments and crafts with children. Children really love us and are very sensible. Sometimes a little company can make them happy for a long time. So spend more time with your children when they are young.