There was a boy with a bad temper, so his father gave him a bag of nails. And told him that whenever he lost his temper, he would nail a nail in the fence in the backyard.

On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails. Slowly, the number of nails hammered down every day decreased.

He found it easier to control his temper than to hammer those nails.

Finally, one day, the boy will never lose patience and lose his temper again. He told his father about it, and his father told him that from now on, as long as he could control his temper, he would pull out a nail.

Day by day passed, and finally the boy told his father that he had finally pulled out all the nails.

My father took him by the hand and came to the backyard, saying, You have done well, my good boy. But look at those holes in the fence. These fences will never be repaired. What you say when you are angry will leave a scar like these nails. If you stab someone with a knife, no matter how many times you say you're sorry, the wound will last forever. The pain of words is as unbearable as the real pain.

Note: People often get hurt forever because of some persistent insistence. If we can all start from ourselves and start to be tolerant of others, I believe you (you) will receive many unexpected effects ... helping others open a window is to let themselves see a more complete sky. ....

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There is a bad-tempered little boy. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him to hammer a nail in the back fence whenever he lost his temper.

On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails on the fence.

Then it gradually decreased. He found it easier to control his temper than to hammer a nail into the fence.

Finally one day, the boy stopped losing his temper at all. He told his father about it, and his father suggested that he take out a milk every day now, so that he could control his temper.

A few days passed, and the little boy could finally tell his father that all the nails had been pulled out. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the hole in the fence. The fence will never be the same again. When you say something angrily, they leave a scar like this. You can stab a person with a knife and pull it out. It doesn't matter how many times you say you're sorry, the wound is still there. Verbal injuries are as bad as physical injuries.

Friends are really very precious gems. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They listen to us and share our compliments. They always want to open their hearts to us. Tell your friends how much you care about them.