Because children's ideas and behaviors in childhood will imitate their parents, if they have more contact with their fathers, there will be more male roles. Unfortunately, under the current pressure of life, many fathers attach too much importance to their careers and leave the care of their children to their mothers, which will affect their children's maternal advantages and lose the masculinity that men should have.
Many parents don't know how to cultivate boys' masculinity, so they think that men's masculinity is to take their children to practice martial arts, and men who practice martial arts are masculinity. This kind of consciousness is a bit abnormal. Practicing martial arts is to cultivate boys' competitive consciousness, participate in antagonistic sports such as football, basketball and martial arts fighting, and let children know that they have to work hard if they want to win.
Let the children know that if they don't work hard and don't start work, they will get nothing and nothing. They will gradually know how to attack in everyone's confrontation, and their wisdom and courage will be gradually cultivated in attack and defense and strategy.
It is very important for children to suffer properly and exercise their sense of responsibility. Don't give your child too much material needs, except the necessities of life, and don't give your child too much pocket money, because everything is satisfied for your child at home. This "hunger" is not cultivated for children.
Children should dare to be "the king of children" when they are with other children. In this process, they can exercise their emotional intelligence and IQ, as well as their expressive ability. More importantly, they will be able to influence others. It doesn't matter when a child makes a mistake. If he makes a mistake, he should be made to bear the corresponding consequences. Don't spoil children too much, thinking that children can't stand a little suffering. You know, the child will encounter a hundred times of difficulties in his later life, and the detour he has to take is one meter.
Don't blindly seek results. It is more important for boys to have a sense of responsibility. Otherwise, they will accomplish nothing for their children and increase the burden on their families. Therefore, if you want to abolish a person, you must be obedient to this person. In the end, the man can't do anything he wants. The more setbacks and pains a boy experiences, the harder he will remember when he grows up. After all, a person's ability is to be carried.
Nowadays, many boys just can't get up, because their parents have arranged everything, so the children have no chance to take responsibility, and they have not been trained to take responsibility and bear the consequences. And many parents have motives when educating their children. What is the motivation for children to avoid detours? Thinking about how to make children not bear this consequence and avoid bearing losses. It is wrong for parents to educate their children. It is not enough to ask children to study hard.
It is necessary to cultivate children's hard-working spirit, not to spoil them too much, and to know that children can take responsibility from housework, setbacks, failures and losses, so that they can gradually become a real man. A "self-improving gentleman" means not only being physically strong, but also wanting to be a self-improving person. Being a man who dares to take responsibility is the most fundamental foundation of a man.