The way mothers educate their children to read.
1. Reading stories to children at a fixed time every day as soon as possible is very important to cultivate children's reading habits and interests.
2. Set a good example for children and let them see that you are reading. Children are good at imitation, and it is better to demonstrate by themselves than to preach again and again. If parents insist on reading a little every day, reading slowly will become a part of their lives, and then reading slowly will also become a part of your children's lives ... You know, a person's physical growth needs eating, and a person's ideological growth needs thinking, and reading is the most effective way to promote thinking.
3. Good reading is pleasant reading. Don't let children's reading be utilitarian. Nowadays, many people don't like reading, and most of them are full of utilitarianism. This is the enemy of reading. Only thinking about utilitarian things, I am afraid that reading will lose my original happiness. When something is unhappy, no one wants to really get involved. So are children. If a child studies to enable him to achieve a certain goal, or for an exam, the child will only gradually stay away from reading.
4. Don't overemphasize the reading posture and give children full freedom. There is a disadvantage for children to read books. How can they feel comfortable? At this time, don't turn into an emotional confrontation. He wants to lie on the sofa and read a book. You forbade him, but he insisted. You throw books. How can I study for a long time? Also, parents should not let their children emphasize reading, literacy, understanding and reading slowly, regardless of their reading speed, so as to give them full freedom.
5, often take children to the library or bookstore. Gradually from pure comics, graphic comics, comics with many words, comics with connotations, to written books, don't worry, the more books you read, the better your natural taste.
6. Buy books for children to ensure that the total amount is enough to ensure that children can read for one year. An author, a series of books, if not bad, especially recognized classics, children still like it, might as well add them one after another. Children often have a high degree of recognition of their favorite authors' books and will read them repeatedly.
7, the variety should be rich, not limited. Adults can guide children what they like to read and what they don't like to read, but they should not be too restrictive. You can't say that you like "One Hundred Years of Solitude" and you can't hide that children like "Decline" comics. Unlike adults who consciously choose some books to supplement their knowledge, children often only look at their favorite types, so their thinking will be limited to a routine. Therefore, books, whether astronomical geography, literature, history, classics and philosophy, novels, essays and comic picture books, should be eclectic and broaden their knowledge.
The benefits of children's reading
0 1 Expand children's horizons
Reading can broaden children's horizons, and only by reading extensively can they be well informed. Reading is an effective means to consolidate learning achievements and enrich knowledge. Children's reading is a process of consolidating and accumulating knowledge. Through reading, increase children's knowledge and understanding of Geng Ge's field. Enhance children's language expression ability and strengthen their extensive, profound, logical and flexible thinking.
Cultivate imagination
The world in the book is boundless, full of imagination, curiosity and opportunities. No matter how narrow and boring the real world is, children who love reading have lofty ideals and endless dreams, which bring them unlimited creativity.
Cultivate independent thinking ability
Reading can cultivate critical thinking ability. Children can absorb the complex arguments and plots in the book and analyze and understand them. Reading can make children think independently.
04 improve writing ability
Primary and middle school students who like reading have mastered the ability of language and writing, often surpassing their peers. They can get good grades without reciting and reciting texts, and they can also get good grades in off-campus exams, because reading improves their writing ability.
05 improve listening and speaking ability
In children's literature, vivid images such as gentle and kind white rabbit, clever and lively little squirrel and fierce and cruel wolf deeply attract children and touch their hearts. So, they will hold their breath and listen attentively. In the big book activity, after a child tells a story, other children will comment, "Do you think he speaks well? Why? " This inevitably requires children to listen purposefully. Under such guidance, children develop the ability to analyze and evaluate what they hear while listening.
How can mothers cultivate their children's love for learning?
1, I believe that human potential is infinite.
You know, man is the spirit of the universe, and he has almost unlimited potential. With proper development, you can learn everything. Therefore, when our children encounter setbacks in study, life and interpersonal communication, adults as parents must give their children encouragement. Through the encouragement of parents, parents convey the benign information of trust in children's ability and trust in their personality. This kind of credible information is a great boost for children. Give the child strength to overcome the difficulties he will always encounter.
Encouraging children is an action that our parents should do every day.
The child is a growing person, his ability is still being cultivated and his values are being established. In other words, our child will not do things right automatically, and it is completely normal for him to make mistakes. When a child does something wrong not because of his ability, parents should teach him the skills to do things right. And pull children out of setbacks through encouragement; When children do something wrong because they don't know what is right and wrong, parents should help them distinguish right from wrong in time and rescue them from confusion by encouraging them.
3. "Never mind, come again next time!"
When a child fails, parents should use this sentence to dispel his sense of failure. In the world of children, the competitive pressure they face far exceeds that of us adults: firstly, their own abilities are insufficient and they need systematic training; Secondly, their behavior is measured by the unified standard test paper formulated in advance; Thirdly, there are many participants, 70-80 in each class; Fourth, if you don't meet the requirements, you will be beaten and scolded, and you will not be allowed to eat. Let's imagine that if the parents of a class are formed into a new class, and they are allowed to learn courses suitable for their age, the requirements for them are the same as those for their children, and the requirements for their living and learning environment are the same as those for their children. If a child fails to learn a lesson well, he will be severely punished as if he could learn it well and deliberately failed to learn it well. In fact, if children can study hard, no child will get 100 and no child will get 30. As parents, we must bear in mind that children are growing people and their abilities are still developing. We can never ask them by the standards of adults. When the child fails, parents should be full of sympathy and use encouragement to restore the child's courage.
4. "No problem, I believe you!"
Parents should use this sentence to summon up their children's courage when they encounter something they dare not do. It is natural that children will encounter things they have never done at any time in their study, making friends and school collective life, and their hearts are full of fear. Parents are always ready to encourage their children. Children's confidence and courage come from parents' encouragement. When parents keep telling their children, "No problem, I believe you!" At that time, children gained strength from their parents before they bravely faced the problems in life.
5. General formula of encouragement: encouragement = trust in children's character and ability+believe that you can do it+physical contact.
In order to restore children's courage and confidence, parents should not only tell their children in words that you believe in their character and ability, but also encourage them to try or try again. More importantly, they should have physical contact with their children and convey trust and strength to them by hugging, patting their shoulders or stroking their hair. Only in this way can children truly feel strength and regain their courage and self-confidence.
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