In the education of love, Perboni can better enter the hearts of children by using emotional models. Suhomlinski once said: "What does it mean to be a good teacher? This first shows that he is such a person who loves children. " It can be seen that educating children and caring for children are not antagonistic, but harmonious and unified. However, in the actual education process, many teachers still can't handle the relationship between the two, and often punish them by corporal punishment. When these teachers adopt these simple and rude education methods, I wonder if they have thought about it. Besides these methods, is there no better way? If you think carefully and design carefully, you will certainly be able to organically combine educating and caring for children. This can not only achieve the goal of educating children, but also protect their self-esteem. Only such an education is a real education, an education full of wisdom.