First, the channels of sex education.
First, knowledge transfer and education between parents and children, which is the most important and effective educational channel.
Secondly, sex education in schools is not reliable, because all schools are avoiding sex education at present.
Third, online education is easy to get out of control and go wrong.
Fourthly, sex education in writing is accidental for some readers, because it is not easy for our children to read these written materials.
Fifth, media-based sex education, including TV and other self-media and so on.
These are mainly stimuli and belong to one-sided sex education.
Family sex education is the most important, appropriate and effective education.
Parents give up sex education, which is tantamount to leaving their children in a state of numbness without education, and it is very dangerous to let their children rise and fall in the ocean of desire.
Second, educational opportunities.
Four or five years old, grasp the sensitive period of children's gender identity, that is, four or five years old, and complete their gender identity.
When I was about four years old, my children were most concerned about who was a boy and who was a girl, why I was a girl, why I was different from a boy, what was the difference, why boys could not wear skirts and so on.
In social activities, children begin to confirm their gender and complete their gender self-identity through self-observation.
Our suggestion is that in this period, children's exploration and understanding of the body comes from observation. When adults explain to children, their attitudes must be objective and scientific, just like understanding children's eyes, nose and mouth, helping children to complete their gender self-awareness of body, clothing, image, personality and society. Create opportunities for children to understand gender and answer all their questions.
Before puberty comes, that is, children are eight to nine years old, during which they complete the teaching of physiological changes and physiological change knowledge.
Girls have the concept of breasts, pictures of breasts, touching mothers' breasts, menstruation, prevention of menstruation, treatment of discomfort, perineal hygiene, disease prevention, sexual desire and psychological reaction.
For boys, there are penis hygiene maintenance, normal erection, masturbation, masturbation reaction, sexual desire, sexual desire performance and sexual desire reaction.
Introduce children to formal books and let them read formal sex education books.
You can watch and discuss with your children. Parents are calm, and the less mystery their children have about sex, the better.
What should be avoided at this time is the avoidance of parents, which forms a blank of children's knowledge of sex education and is in a passive state of ignorance, helplessness and helplessness, and children can easily go astray.
To deal with children's confusion, we should pay attention to safeguarding children's privacy, and knock on the door when entering adolescent children's rooms, so that children can be fully prepared.
After observing children's masturbation behavior, we should guide them to see an international sexologist.