1. Be honest with others and others will be honest with you.

Don't turn a blind eye to your classmates' help because of the boring reason that "the waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves ahead and kill them on the beach". This kind of help is more than just borrowing something, such as talking about a topic, and then talking as much as you can until the other person understands. Over time, your popularity will get better and better.

Don't tie your hands and feet, being yourself is the most important thing.

The landlord said, "I'm afraid I can't do one thing well to annoy others." The consequence of this practice is that you are mediocre and dispensable in the eyes of everyone, and naturally you will not value your words (even the most correct ones). Be yourself and show your personality. Everyone has a bright side. Similarly, everyone is unique. Maybe you are ordinary on the surface, but your inner strength can cover up the ordinary on the surface.

3. Learn to choose friends.

"Sometimes I spend some money on them and buy them something to eat." The sooner someone associates with you for material enjoyment, the better for you. I'm not talking about breaking up or anything, just drifting away. There are two reasons: 1. As the saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together", many students know that these people are hedonistic, and of course they will not have a good impression on you. 2. If you take the initiative to buy food for these students ... Well, I can't say anything, it's your choice. But I still want to tell you that you can't get respect by flattery. In the eyes of the other party, you may be an ATM. How do people feel about ATMs? Maybe I still think you're boring.

Friends can't be bought with money. A true friend won't give up on you even in the face of a huge check. Only by talking about common interests and attracting each other bit by bit can we make real friends. It's not that you can't fall in love at first sight, but that there are too few.

4. Pay more attention to your words

Don't swear at every turn. This gives a poor first impression, and I don't need to emphasize the importance of the first impression. You should understand.

Well, after reading your supplement, I probably understand the situation.

Now you are the image of a "good guy" at school ... or it is no exaggeration to say that you are a "bad guy". But it's best not to be such a person. If you are angry, you will be angry, and you should repay what others have done to you. For example, if someone scolds you with an "SB", you must return it, otherwise you can bully it casually in other people's impression. But someone else must take the initiative to find you, not you.

On the other hand, you think your personality is self-centered. In fact, to put it bluntly, living in this society, everyone is selfish, "Every man for himself, the devil takes the hindmost". If your friends are really selfless, then your school will evolve too fast ... Hehe, there is nothing wrong with proper selfishness. Don't let your selflessness become someone else's ATM.

One more thing to note, I forgot to mention it before. Don't make fun of everything you see, curiosity kills people. There are many private things that people don't want to tell others, so it's not good for you to ask. It's better to be the kind of person who goes straight to the point without saying anything. Only in this way can your words carry weight and be taken seriously.