/kloc-What if a 0/4-year-old girl hates school and her parents?
First, when children have bad problems and behaviors, at this age, children have no social experience, no experience, are psychologically fragile, have no foresight about the future, and are unaware of the so-called bad problems and behaviors that happen to them, which will bring disadvantages to their children in the future. I have done a lot of data surveys, and almost 99% of children simply can't tell what bad problems that happen to children will have bad effects on them in the future. So I can't understand what parents are worried about. What seems meaningful to parents becomes irrelevant to children.
Second, parents want to change their children's bad habits by communicating with their children, but many parents ignore a core, that is, what can change the positioning and cognition of their inner subconscious! Ignore the influence of language on children's behavior in the process of communication, and often ignore the understanding and application of language.
Third, communicate with children. Sit down and ask why you don't want to go to school. If the child doesn't want to answer, or just decides not to go to school, parents should carry out ideological education at this time, tell the child through some things around them, let the child know what he wants to do after not going to school, and communicate with the child carefully.
Fourth, take the children to some places to see. Children who don't want to go to school just yearn for the outside world and don't know what the outside world is like. Take them to some places they think are useful to them. The realistic version of education should not let them in their own imagination.
Fifth, give children space to think independently. These days, you can give your child a space to think independently, let her think for herself, calm down and think in her own space, minimize contact with friends, and let her think independently. You can also show her some related movies.
6. Tell the child clearly her responsibilities and things to do after doing this, so that she can realize what to do if she doesn't learn. Let children know that not going to school may have results according to their own conditions.
Seven, with feelings, let the child know that you are good to her, let the child know more about your mood, be moved by actions, understand why the child does this, and be moved by feelings.
/kloc-the reason why 0/4-year-old girls hate school and parents;
1, I hate studying. In middle school, I added a lot of academic content. Children may feel a little overwhelmed by their studies.
2. I feel confused in my study. When communicating with many children, I found that children don't know why they want to study, and they are particularly confused: why do they want to study subjects that they are not good at?
3. It is children's aversion to school. Students often convey some emotions, such as dissatisfaction with the school system and complaints about some people and things.
4, it is the child's poor ability to resist setbacks. Such children often grow up in praise or in the eyes of everyone, and will become the focus of everyone.
5. It is the problem that children are addicted to mobile phones and tired of learning, that is, mobile phone addiction. In fact, this is the same as the children who used to be addicted to the internet or TV. Nowadays, children are more likely to indulge in mobile games, which almost every child will encounter.
Parents should distinguish the seriousness of the matter, try to solve the problem from the root, and not just look at the surface of the problem.