"Why are China's parents so tired? It's because they love their children too much to accept their imperfections."

When it comes to the topic of education, Wen Wen is thoughtful. As a mother with high emotional intelligence, Wen Wen is an echo of Bao Ma. Many whimsy amazed the treasure moms. She is good at reverse thinking, and there are too many logical views that are not in line with traditional education, which can appropriately relieve everyone's confusion about education and make the atmosphere of many families more harmonious.

As a representative of parents with high emotional intelligence, Wen Wen has too much to say, especially in children's education.

"As long as you learn to change your way of thinking, children can develop in the ideal direction."

Wen Wen's words are absolute, but they are true. She is a family of three children, with two children and a daughter. She should have been overwhelmed by the task of raising children. However, the decency and vitality of the style of writing prove that there is a shortcut to educating children, and the focus is on the change of thinking. Learning can not only make children happier, but also make Ma Bao calm down and get more benefits.

Learn to zero the problem.

Every time a child enters school, parents' nerves begin to get nervous. As soon as the teacher called, the parents here collapsed, so the family began to fly.

"In fact, we don't have to do this. We must learn to zero our responsibilities."

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Wen was once called to school because of her little daughter's poor grades. Her first reaction was not "I didn't educate her child well" or "the child was disobedient again", but "the child must be very sad, and I will comfort her". Accepting children's imperfections and making a mountain out of a molehill can bring great strength to children and urge them to make progress.

Don't be too hard on yourself.

"Learn to be kind to yourself before you can be kind to your children."

Wen Wen said that no country's nanny is harder than Chinese mothers at home and abroad. They always ask themselves to take responsibility. When children are tired and thirsty, they only blame themselves for the first time. "It's all my fault. If I can do better, the children will not be like this. " It makes people feel distressed.

"When a child makes a mistake, Ma Bao begins to reflect on himself, which is wrong."

In the logic of writing, Ma Bao and her children are independent of each other, and no one dares to pay for anyone's mistakes. She never thinks that she is not a good mother because her children make mistakes. "I am a good mother, just like a child is a good child. We all need time to grow up."

Learn to take a positive view of getting along with children.

Many parents like to suppress their children, put their parents' attitude completely at home and yell at their children. This belongs to low emotional intelligence education. Wen Wen believes that parents and children are equal, and encouragement and help are the theme songs of parent-child relationship.

If the child is disobedient, don't think about repairing him, but change it to "he needs my guidance"; If the child does something wrong, don't think about accusing her, but change it to "Great, I can help her"; When a child fails, don't frown, but change it to "the experience of failure is precious, and we should seize the opportunity to make progress." Only when parents apply high EQ to their children can children go further.

Finally, what do you think of this? Tell me about your high EQ in education.

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