Special instructions:
If a friend has a deep knowledge of classical Chinese, he can understand it at a glance, and the following explanation and translation can be ignored.
① Chen Taiqiu: Chen Ya (shí, 104— 187) was born in Xu Xian County, Yingchuan (now Chen Gu Village, Guqiao Township, changge city, Xuchang, Henan). Because he was the leader of Taiwei, his administration won the hearts of the people, so he was later called "Chen Taiwei". After his death, as many as 30 thousand people went to mourn him.
② Xun Langling: Uncle Xun, as mentioned above. Because he is the prince of Langya, he is called the prince of Xun Langya in the world.
③: Chen Ji, the eldest son, the word Fang. See the first note (2) of Founder.
④ Ji Fang: Chen Mao's fourth son, chenchen, was named Ji Fang. Also known as "three kings" with father and brother.
⑤ Long article: Chen Qun, word length. Chen Ji's son, Chen Mao's grandson. Cao Wei was an important minister in the Three Kingdoms period.
⑥ Shu Ci: Jing Xun, the third son of Xun Shu.
⑦ Ciming: Xun Shuang, the fourth son of Xun Shu, was a minister and scholar at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty.
⑧ Yu: Uncle Xun has eight sons named Eight Dragons, all of whom are outstanding talents. Yu refers to the other six sons of Xun Jian, Xun Yu, Xun Dao,, and.
9 Wen Ruo: Yu Xun (163-212), whose real name is Wen Ruo. A famous politician and strategist at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Cao Cao's chief adviser, and the hero of unifying the North, was called "my ovary (my Sean)" by Cao Cao.
⑩ Taishi: an official in charge of national classics, astronomical calendars and sacrifices.
The gist of this story is:
Chen Taiqiu (Chen Ya) visited Xun Shu. Because the family was poor and couldn't afford to hire servants, he asked his eldest son Fiona Fang to drive, his second son Ji Fang followed with a scepter, and his grandson Chang Wen was still young and sat in the car. To Uncle Xun.
There, Uncle Xun asked his third son, Uncle Ci, to meet him at the door, while his sixth son, Ci Ming, made a toast and the other six sons served food. If Sun Wenzi was still young, he would sit on his grandfather's knee.
At that time, the Taishi said to the emperor, "The virtuous man went to the East."
Someone wants to ask, why doesn't Chen Taishou go by himself? Let your son follow the car. How slow should I drive so as not to worry about losing my child?
Visiting between celebrities is a rare learning opportunity for the younger generation, and it is reasonable to invite children and grandchildren.
At that time, the car was an ox cart, which was very slow, just like walking.
It is necessary etiquette for the elders to take the bus and the younger generation to accompany them. It is impolite if the younger generation and the older generation share a car.
Besides, Chen Ya's sons should be adults. Why are they lost? In addition, county-level officers should not be called satrap, but should generally be called government troops.
This article mainly praises celebrities who don't talk about wealth. Because of poverty and lack of servants, Chen Ya took her children and grandchildren to visit Uncle Xun, who asked them to take the place of servants to receive visitors and serve tea and wine, which not only expressed sincere friendship, but also avoided embarrassment among friends.
Both Chen and Xun are famous families with both ability and political integrity, and talented people come forth in large numbers. It can be seen that the inner spirit and beauty are more important than wealth and power in family inheritance.
This story is very enlightening to the communication between parents today.
How parents treat their friends, how to infect them with their words and deeds, and how to educate their children subtly, in fact, you don't need to preach with empty words, just show them.
Some words and deeds and practices of the father on weekdays are the key factors for the child's future growth.
So we can't just hope to solve some deep-rooted ideological problems of children in a few words.
This story emphasizes the following meanings:
1. In family inheritance, inner spirit is more important than wealth and power.
2. Parents should educate their children, not just talk empty words, but internalize them into ordinary actions and guide their children's actions with more actions.