? The rebellious period of boys usually begins at the age of 10- 12 and usually ends at the age of 16-20. The so-called rebellious period is that teenagers feel that their independent existence is ignored by the outside world during their growth, thus producing rebellious psychology. In the face of rebellious children, our parents should prescribe the right medicine according to their personal situation. If children are emotional, we can adjust and guide them in a gentle way, so that children can spend this period quietly. For introverted children, we can make them really understand and learn to put themselves in other's shoes through some reasonable methods.

? My son is in his twenties and is very rebellious. What should I do?

1. Set an example. Teenagers' rebellious psychology will be influenced by surrounding environmental factors, and guardians should lead by example and guide them to develop in a positive direction.

2. Do a good job of parent-child relationship. Parent-child relationship is greater than any solution to the problem. If children have a good parent-child relationship with their parents, they will adopt higher self-discipline both for their parents and for their own future affairs. Give your child more guidance, more affirmation, be patient with him and don't suppress him.

3. Let children learn to be independent. Under normal circumstances, if adults care too much, they will not let their children go out, and their thinking and psychology will gradually mature. Freud said: "The main driving force for growth comes from separation from parents." As parents, if they want their children to grow sturdily, they must be willing to put aside their practice, try their best to let their children serve themselves, learn skills in service and find happiness in family service.

4. Learn to show weakness. If parents learn to show weakness in front of their children and let them help as much as possible in many things, it will stimulate their sense of responsibility and accomplishment, and their rebellious attitude will gradually be corrected. In short, when dealing with rebellious children, avoid condescending advice, reprimanding at any time and place, and endless reasoning. Through concrete practice and examples, let children get a sense of life, find their own advantages and praise them, and give full play to their subjective initiative. Letting children go out to exercise more is a way to make children mature quickly.

5. Let children experience the respect of adults. Good children are all commendatory words. We should encourage, praise, reward, restrict, criticize and punish rebellious children more, so that we can get enough personality respect. Don't try to eat a fat man in one bite. Children can't get rid of all their shortcomings at once.

6. Help children find their own direction, such as guiding children to learn from others and teach themselves. Therefore, sometimes when children are rebellious, they should be as strong as seeds. When the child is turned around from others and guided to the normal direction, the seeds will surely germinate and the inner strength will become stronger and stronger.

7. Change your parenting style in time, insist on understanding, cooperation rather than confrontation to deal with children's rebellious period, and help children spend the rebellious period more smoothly.

8. Try to know what he is interested in. Like a friend, don't put too much pressure on him, learn to listen to his thoughts more, instead of always educating him as a past person.