1, give children more opportunities to exercise.
There is an only child in the family, and some educators in China have always advocated educating children to learn to be human first.
As the saying goes, "you will grow old when you are young, and you will know your age when you are three years old." For the only child in the family, if parents can consciously cultivate their children's self-care ability in the family from an early age, they will get twice the result with half the effort by giving them a comprehensive education in physical quality, psychological quality, ideological morality and behavior habits. Ye Shengtao, a famous educator, once said: "Education is the cultivation of habits." Once a child is infected with a certain bad behavior habit, it will be difficult to correct it in the future, and even affect this person's life. To cultivate children's good behavior habits, we should first pay attention to cultivating children's self-care ability and habits, such as cooking and washing clothes, and also cultivate children's ability to communicate with others. First of all, learn to communicate with classmates, which is a person's most basic ability to adapt to survival.
1972 "learn to survive" puts forward in the report of UNESCO's international education development Committee that it is necessary to cultivate people's self-survival and development ability, promote the comprehensive and harmonious development of people's personality, and make it the basic purpose of contemporary education. The Japanese regard the cultivation of children's independence and autonomy as an indispensable condition for human survival. They pay attention to cultivating children's sense of competition, helping them overcome psychological barriers that they can't afford to lose, and teaching them humility, cooperation and loss. In order to educate children to bear hardships, in the modern living environment, children are asked to wash clothes with washboards, carry water with shoulder poles, make a fire with coal stoves, build their own tents, make their own sea salt and cook on uninhabited islands with harsh environment. Its purpose is to let children learn to survive from an early age. Every country is cultivating its own offspring. In order to make our next generation stronger, in this world, in our family, in school, in society, and in families with only children at home, we should show less pity and care for the only children and give them more opportunities for exercise.
2. Pay attention to the cultivation of children's interest in learning.
In the era of knowledge economy, the competition for talents is fierce. It is not difficult to understand why parents of only children now attach so much importance to their children's intellectual education. But there is a lot of knowledge about how to make children study hard and study hard.
In fact, learning is a step-by-step process, which requires constant patience to help children. The premise is the communication and understanding between parents and children. Only in this way can we find and correct children's mistakes and shortcomings in time and encourage children's strengths and specialties in time. Moreover, learning depends on self-awareness, and it is very important to cultivate students' interest in learning from an early age. A large number of early education studies have proved that early family education is of great significance to developing individual potential. With a good environment and reasonable education, children's great potential can be fully tapped. Einstein said: "Imagination is more important than knowledge, because knowledge is limited, and imagination summarizes everything in the world, promotes progress and is the source of knowledge evolution."
We need to create a democratic family atmosphere.
Respecting and understanding children is an important condition for educating them well. To love children, we must understand them and gain insight into their inner world and personality characteristics. Children may have such and such problems in their growth period. Whether parents should intervene in everything or give full respect and understanding is a common problem in family education. Facts have proved that giving children full independence and freedom and giving them more opportunities to express their opinions in a democratic atmosphere are necessary conditions for their healthy growth. The causes of rare malignant events in universities are mostly caused by students' mental health problems. These students often get good grades, and some even go to graduate school without taking the exam, but it is precisely because of the lack of healthy personality that they can't face up to the setbacks in life. The cultivation of healthy personality is directly related to family. After a child is born, he has the most contact with his parents, so his parents are his "first teacher". Parents' ideological and moral character, personality quality, knowledge and experience, intelligence, emotional will and parenting skills all directly affect the growth of children and are related to the cultivation of their healthy personality. Another common feature of the success of the one-child family education is the democratic education method: parents should pay attention to improving their self-cultivation and set an example; Fully respect and understand children. Grasping learning begins with cultivating children's interest in learning, so that children can develop their awareness of learning, cultivate their character in a good and harmonious environment and form a healthy personality.
It is a systematic project to cultivate a comprehensive and healthy child, which requires the joint efforts of schools, society and other factors. However, if we can consciously pay attention to the above points in the process of family education, I believe that the education of the only child will certainly achieve good results. We say that the healthy growth of the only child can not be separated from the cultivation and education of competent parents.