Parents talk to their children in a harmonious atmosphere. Through the exchange of ideas between parents and children, children have been educated and enlightened.

A successful conversation is like a spring breeze, and children will be taught.

Second, the art of activities with children

Getting along with children actively is one of the effective ways to create a good family atmosphere.

Take the children to the wild.

Take the children sightseeing.

Take the children shopping.

Have fun with the children.

Third, the art of praise and reward.

Praising and rewarding children is conducive to cultivating children's self-esteem and sense of honor and deepening the feelings between parents and children.

The way of praise and reward is mainly spiritual reward.

For young children, necessary material rewards are also a good means of education.

Fourth, the art of apologizing to children.

Parents should take the initiative to apologize if they have done something wrong or wronged their children.

This will neither affect the prestige of parents nor damage their dignity; On the contrary, it will set an example for children to correct their mistakes, and will make children sincerely admire their parents' quality and cultivation, so as to trust their parents more and be close to them; The dignity of parents will not be reduced, but will be higher, which will also form a relaxed, harmonious and democratic atmosphere conducive to the growth of children in the family.

Verb (short for verb) The art of tolerance.

Tolerance means that after a child does something wrong, parents accept the child's fault with a broad mind. They don't reprimand or investigate harshly, which will make the child deeply blame himself, calmly think about his past in regret and guilt, and urge him to turn over a new leaf in the generosity of his parents.

Sixth, the art of criticism.

Affirm the right first, and then point out the wrong; Praise the past first, then point out today's; You can even criticize yourself first and then criticize your children.

As parents, we must face our children's problems rationally, try to restrain our useless emotional impulses, enhance our educational awareness and pay attention to the art of criticism.

Seven, the art of setting an example

The power of example is infinite.

In family education, the words and deeds of role models make the educational content concrete and personalized, make children infected and educated by images, enhance the attraction and effectiveness of education, encourage children to imitate and learn noble moral behaviors, and correct their own bad words and deeds.

The younger the child, the more attractive the role model is. The example of my childhood left a deep impression on me, and I will never forget it.