After watching "Caigen Tan", I learn from time to time. After reading some contents, I still often look at the past. I like some sentences very much and I am amazed after reading them several times.
When I read this sentence yesterday, I shouldn't look down on my promise with joy. The drunkard's intention is not wine, and things are busy quickly and the freshness is exhausted. These first three sentences remind me of a law popularization program I watched on CCTV the other day. A male driver married a company woman, and the villain was promoted to vice president after the marriage. On the honeymoon, the man took his daughter back to his hometown, and his brother wanted to be a driver at the headquarters, so the man got drunk and responded. The woman was slapped by the man because she didn't have a job, and then there was some contradiction. In the end, the woman sued the man and the two divorced because of domestic violence. So when I saw these first three sentences, I was associated with this tragedy.
At first, the two may not start from love, but later, because the man jumped on the husband of the female boss and was promoted because of nepotism, it was very dangerous in itself. Furthermore, the traditional China men can't accept that women's ability is higher than their own, which also lays the foundation for this marriage tragedy. If you rise fast, you will often get carried away, and you won't know if you can't find the north at once. On the wedding honeymoon, men think that women and companies are in their pockets and can be manipulated at will, but women are women with wrists, and it is natural that obedient women can't be the person in charge of the company. A subjective woman won't let this man who doesn't have a position do whatever he wants. The key point is that before marriage, they all thought that love was above everything else, and after marriage, they all thought that the other party could think for themselves unconditionally, but the fact is that they both overestimated love and overestimated each other.
Human nature plays a fundamental role in ignoring commitments when we are happy. When they are happy, everything is easy to discuss, and people will always seize the right opportunity to talk about conditions. When they are happy, their tense nerves will be relaxed, their mastery will be much milder, the rules will be sidelined, and things will often be easy. Because of drunkenness, it is easy for people to do things that they would not normally do when they are drunk. In fact, they just covered their faces with wine, and their emotions were not controlled, or their ability to control their emotions was weakened by wine. Vanity, jealousy and arrogance are more or less extreme. But when they are released without restraint, they are a terrible force, which can destroy a person's glorious image accumulated for N years in an instant. This is terrible and surprises everyone. Based on this situation, personally, it is better to present a basic true self at ordinary times than to be too nervous. Ride fast and do a lot of things, which is probably the same as the first sentence. When the spring breeze is proud, it is difficult to show it, and it will inevitably cause trouble.
Of course, all this is based on a person's most fundamental humanity and nature. If the story is about an elegant man who knows how to be affectionate, these domestic violence will never happen. If the woman in the story doesn't forgive his first slap casually, there will be no subsequent experience. Women should remember that a man's first slap in the face is not only unique, but also the first one. If you want to forgive him, it is equivalent to accepting his n-th violence by default, which also seems to be a man cheating. If you do,
After reading Caigen Tan, there are always many doubts, feelings and grievances, and sometimes a little difficulty or detour is enough to restrict the development of our lives. However, in any case, there is always a bright light that has been guiding the direction of our lives. Let's move forward bravely.
The eternal spiritual flame has been handed down from generation to generation today, such as Tao Te Ching, Zhuangzi and Caigen Tan ... It was Caigen Tan that inspired me when I was confused in my youth.
According to a story, Su Qin tried to persuade the king of Qin with the theory of "Lian Heng", but he failed many times. Finally, the money ran out, so I had to go home despondently. His wife didn't look up from the loom, his sister-in-law didn't cook for him and his parents didn't talk to him. So he hung his head and stabbed his own stock to study Sun Tzu's Art of War "Yin Fu". After finishing his studies, he single-handedly lifted the Covenant between the six countries and Qin State and hung the national seal of the six countries. When Su Qin was proud, Wanjin was used by him, and his followers rode horses in an endless stream. Then he went home again. When his parents heard the news, they quickly arranged to clean the residence and clean the road; Set up music, organize banquets and meet in the suburbs three miles away. When Su Qin arrived, his wife didn't dare to look him in the eye. She just secretly observed his face and listened to him respectfully. Sister-in-law bows down like a snake, and makes four apologies. Su Qin said, "Sister-in-law, why are you humble?" Sister-in-law said, "If you respect the position of the season, you will get more gold."
Isn't it the same in a person's life? In the face of money, glory and power, people are most vulnerable to the indifference of the world. And I can't get rid of my anger, entanglement and helplessness about life. Until one day, I watched Caigen Tan and answered questions for me when I met a famous teacher. There is a sentence in the article: "I am expensive and others give me, and I am honored to have this crown." I'm mean and humiliated, and I'm insulting this linen. But it's not for me. Why am I happy? You didn't insult me. Why should I be angry? "The general idea is that people flatter me when I have power and influence, and they are flattering my official position and gauze hat; If I am poor and humble, I despise me, that is, I despise my straw sandals. So you don't flatter me at all. Why should I be happy? Don't belittle me at all. Why should I be angry? I learned "don't be surprised, look at the flowers in front of the court;" "I have no intention of staying, I hope the sky is full of clouds."
There is a saying in "Caigen Tan": Life is only a hundred years, and this day is the easiest. Those who are lucky enough to live in it must not know the joy of life, nor worry about the emptiness of life. It means: the operation of heaven and earth is eternal, but human life is only once and will not be resurrected after death; A person can't live up to 100 years old, but a hundred years is only a moment compared with heaven and earth. We humans can be lucky enough to be born in this eternal world. We should not only understand the fun we should enjoy in life, but also remind ourselves not to waste our lives at all times. In that case, should I waste my life pursuing money and power? No, life itself is endless fun and great wealth. I don't need to pursue more material enjoyment, but spiritual pursuit
I read "Caigen Tan" as if I were listening to the teachings of a wise man. His warm and wise words can dispel the fog and dust, and make my heart clear and quiet.
Thoughts on reading "Caigen Tan" 3 Long ago, I heard a friend mention the book "Caigen Tan", and my friend spoke highly of it, calling it a book of cultivation and wisdom. I also want to read it carefully in my spare time, but I'm too busy to read it.
Recently, my daughter's school distributed this book to children and asked each student to remember the information in it. My eight-year-old daughter couldn't understand the meaning behind every quotation at all, and asked me for help, so she took this opportunity to open the book "Caigen Tan" for the first time.
Caigen Tan is a collection of quotations about practice, life, social life and fertility compiled by Taoist Hong Yingming in the early Ming Dynasty. There are different opinions about the reason why "the vegetable root is named", and most of them think that it stems from an old saying of scholars in Song Dynasty-"If you can bite the vegetable root, you can do anything". Through this book, the author shows his indifferent attitude of being willing to be poor and his ordinary and detached ideal of life, which is worthy of admiration and learning by future generations.
In modern life, the pace of life is fast, and people have no time to stop and reflect on their hearts while they are busy. Just like me, I am busy with my work and life every day, and I often encounter all kinds of failures, setbacks, confusion and knots, which often leave shadows and scars in my heart. While teaching my daughter to learn to read, every quotation in Caigen Tan made me feel deeply, as if suddenly enlightened. Watch a few paragraphs every day, and there are some new ideas and new insights every day. In reading, I opened my heart, let these cautionary and awakening quotations surround and infiltrate my heart, change my mind, change my life, and change my outlook on life and world.
"The poor are rich and poor, and the contented are poor and rich. Poverty can't wait for jade to divide wealth, people's grievances are not from Hou, and power is self-sufficient; "A contented person's quinoa soup aims at getting rich, a robe is warmer than a fox, and people are not allowed to be princes", which has a very strong educational benefit to the idea of pursuing wealth and comparing with each other in today's society. In the past, I was always lost in material desires, constantly longing for better material conditions, and as a result, my heart was never satisfied. In comparison with others, I always expect something beyond my potential, and my life is impetuous and vain. At this moment, I understand that the pursuit of material things is endless. Although I don't have luxurious material conditions, I have a happy family and a stable and reliable job. Although my life is ordinary, my spirit should be happy and rich. Contentment is always a joy, which is a mentality of people pursuing happiness and a philosophy of life.
"If you are proud, you must look back early. Brush your heart and let it go. If you are grateful, you will be hurt in the afterlife. Therefore, when you are happy, you must look back early; After failure or counter-success, so don't let go when you are in your heart. " Life is always full of setbacks and pride. This quotation tells us not to get carried away when you are proud, and not to be cold when you are frustrated. For me who just transferred from sales to the general office, this sentence can be used as the motto of the workplace. To cope with the new environment and new work challenges, we must redouble our efforts and do our work better; When I encounter setbacks in my work, I no longer lose heart, but continue to work hard and persevere until I succeed.
Life is like this. We should find happiness factors in ordinary life, stay alert in the face of honor, and learn to persist in the face of setbacks. Tan Caigen taught me how to treat life, work and life.
A "Caigen Tan", a warning book, I hope you can steal some leisure, find it, open it, read it, let your heart fly with the words, and let your life enter another realm with reading.
After reading "Caigen Tan", I was quite touched by reading "Caigen Tan": "The article is excellent, full of wonders, just right. The character is the best, there is no difference, it is nature. "
This sentence tells us that when the article is well written, there is nothing abstruse in the wording and sentence-making, but the true feelings of the self are appropriately expressed in words. When a person's moral cultivation reaches the lofty realm of high unity of truth, goodness and beauty, his words and actions have no personality, but only reveal his pure and simple natural spiritual essence for no reason.
Cao Pi raised his article to the highest level of Dian Lun Thesis, saying: "It is a great undertaking of statecraft and an immortal event to cover an article. The years of life sometimes come to an end, and glory stops there. Both will go to a normal period, rather than endless articles. " It has found a theoretical basis for scholars all over the world to study sleepless nights and strive for fame. It has also inspired generations of students to become famous while reading, pay attention to the close combination of literature and character, take composition and life as their life, study diligently and consciously improve themselves, so as to become noble people who look so good in appearance.
In real life, what one's soul thinks and what one's body does are often inconsistent or even antagonistic, which directly leads to the fierce conflict between "writing" and "being a man", which is really cruel. However, this is also the true nature of life. Because in the eyes of China people, "writing is like a person", and the process of running in society all one's life is called "being a man". Only by being a successful person can a person have a pair of skillful hands for writing. As the saying goes, "Xiu De must forget fame and fortune and study hard". A scholar must concentrate, concentrate. Just like when you practice morality, you can't forget the reputation of pursuing utility, so you will definitely not have any real accomplishments. If when you read ancient books, you only focus on poetry and poetry, and you are arty, then of course you can't have any in-depth experience.
Life is like a big stage. Everyone is an actor and plays a different leading role. Naturally, there are positive characters and negative protagonists, and there will be differences between true and false. A person can play a variety of protagonists, but he can't have multiple souls. Otherwise, the struggle between "spirit" and "flesh" is going on all the time, people can't live too tired, the harmony between body and soul can't be unified, and the peace of mind becomes nonsense.
At present, the biggest feeling when friends meet is: it's really tiring to be alive. This kind of fatigue is not simply the intensity of work, but as a social person, we must take into account all aspects of the relationship. This is the fatigue of individual psychology and an unbearable burden for the mind. People in the workplace know this well and tacitly, so they can only bear it silently and adjust it secretly. If we can achieve the goal of "no ingenious writing, only natural personality", unload too much psychological burden, have a broad and calm mind, don't complain about others, don't demand perfection, get rid of the true colors and write sincerely, then we will abandon the fatigue of fame in our limited life journey, enjoy the spring flowers and the autumn moon, taste the summer scenery and winter snow, and end our lives naturally and harmoniously.
Just like the name of "Caigen Tan": If you bite the root of a vegetable, you can break everything. I hope we can "transcend the lust of mouth and ears and see the real interest of life". Whether we are a person or a composition, everything will be fine and happy.