To help children deal with crying, we need to understand that crying is a way for children to express their emotions and communicate their needs. The following suggestions are for your reference:

1.** Understand children's feelings * *: When children cry, try to put yourself in their shoes. This may be because they feel pain, fear, trouble, fatigue or need attention. Understanding why children cry is the most important step.

2.** Calm and patient response * *: Shouting loudly or strongly opposing children's crying may make children more afraid and nervous. It is more helpful to pay attention with a calm attitude, and at the same time, be patient and give them comfort and support.

3.** Teach expression skills * *: As children get older, you can start teaching them how to express their feelings in words instead of just crying. For example, "I know you are angry, but you can tell me why you are angry instead of crying." This can not only help them learn to express themselves, but also help them understand and manage their emotions.

4.** Make rules * *: When children are sensible, you can establish some basic behavior norms, such as crying loudly in public places is not allowed. But remember, these rules need to be based on understanding and respecting children's feelings.

5.** Provide support * *: Let the children know that no matter what problems they encounter, their parents will be there for them. This feeling will make them feel more secure and reduce the possibility of crying because of worry and fear.

6.** Encourage independent problem solving * *: As children grow up, you should also encourage them to learn to solve problems by themselves. This can not only help them build their self-confidence, but also teach them how to face the difficulties in life.

Remember, every child is unique, and they may need different ways to deal with it. Most importantly, always respond to children's emotional expressions with love, patience and understanding.