The golden rule of educating children is: 1. Dream rule: when children are young, plant a dream seed for them. The seed of this dream keeps growing, supporting him to overcome many difficulties and move towards the established goals step by step. What parents should do is to help their children find their dreams, become stepping stones and strong backing on their way to realize their dreams, and support and encourage their children to move towards their goals. 2. Respect the law: Treat children "Don't treat children as people when they are young, but they can't be people when they are old." Children will treat themselves and the whole world as we treat them. In order for children to really grow up, they should be allowed to "stand up" from an early age, instead of "squatting" and looking up at those big people. This reciprocal way can make children have a confident and sound personality. 3. aquarium rules: a small fish is still a small fish after a few years. But one day, the fish tank was broken and the small fish was put into the pond. They miraculously grew into big fish. The same is true of education. Only by breaking the "fish tank" can children get more development and their growth needs free space. Parents should know how to quit at the right time, stay out of it, take care of their children's lives, give them free and independent space, and let them fly higher and go further.