People's Daily talks about parents' bad taste: Should the roles of parents and teachers be put right?
The burden of parents becoming parents is not a new topic. It has long been a phenomenon that some teachers ask parents to correct their homework and help their children with their homework. Parents' group was originally set up to communicate the relationship between home and school, but now it has changed into a notice group for some teachers to assign homework, ask parents to correct homework and even ask parents to clean up at school. Some parents are alienated as "praise groups". Some parents start the praise and gratitude mode and kiss the teacher's ass. But some parents show off their wealth, quarrel and abuse. Both parents have jobs. When they get home after a busy day, they have to stare at their parents' homework and other notices, and then enter the tutoring and correcting mode. Usually, they stay up late and go to work the next day. Can parents have no opinion? In the long run, it will not only cause parents' complaints, but also lead to tension between teachers and parents, which is not conducive to cultivating children's good study habits. In addition, parents' educational level is uneven, and some parents can't help their children's homework at all. Such parents are likely to mislead their children and lose more than they gain. In addition, parents will devote all their energy to assigning and correcting homework, and the family atmosphere will be completely concentrated on homework and learning, while others, such as life education, habit formation education, quality education and the most important parent-child and family interaction, will be too busy to attend to, and in the process of tutoring and correcting homework, parents and children will inevitably collide and rub, which will seriously destroy the harmonious family atmosphere. In fact, school teachers are not ignorant of the disadvantages of parents. Moreover, teachers send notices to parents in groups, urging parents to do this and that, and teachers themselves are not easy. Even on holidays, they have to stare at the screen to check the completion. In that case, why set up a parent group? On the one hand, it is the psychology of "conformity", on the other hand, it is through the supervision of parents to improve students' grades and obtain good rankings. At present, some schools still make the excellent rate, average score and pass rate accurate to two decimal places, so the pressure on teachers can be imagined.