Take myself as an example. When I was a child, I asked my father several times, and he criticized me severely, so that when I was a child, I was afraid of him, thinking that my father just didn't like me and kept yelling at me, which made me dislike talking to my father. And I wanted to run away as soon as I saw my father. I think frustration education is really bad. Children need encouragement and patience. Be more patient with them. Children should be encouraged from an early age, and encouragement can make them full of confidence. Moreover, many books on family education say that cracking down on punishment will make children feel insecure and oppose frustration education. ?
Most of our generation are children who grew up under the education of setbacks. When our parents criticized us, although they said we were wrong on the surface, they were still rebellious, wronged and sad inside, with no intention of introspection. Encouragement education is just the opposite of frustration education. Parents of our generation prefer to educate their children in this way. ? Encouraging education generally includes verbal encouragement and material encouragement. ? For example, if a child does something worth encouraging, we can reward 10 yuan 5 yuan. In this way, the child will be very happy. We can tell our children that you can control the money yourself and let them know that the money is hard to come by.
In fact, we can't completely say that frustration education is wrong, nor can we say that encouraging education is necessarily right. Everything has a degree, and parents should grasp this degree.